Can a girl not use smiley emoticons without guys thinking I'm flirting?

@beardlike,

yea, sry, the answer is fairly simply, it is not a literal ‘drool’, but they are ‘mentally drooling’, and that’s why they start to act weird, they become too self aware and whatever maturity level is found inside is reflected in their response, which is why you can get a multitude of response ranging from -chill- (less common) TO an assortment of nonsense (related to their ego perception of themselves)

@tine, Think of me what you want to. I’m not going to try to change your view on men because it sounds like you’re pretty firm in that belief – like you can see what every man is thinking….

@beardlike, Yeah, I am accusing you, so what? Were you trying to convince me that people should pay attention to what they’re not interested? Sometimes I regret I’m even paying attention.

@beyond,

aww man, don’t be angry, the only way out is through brother =)

@tine, I’m not angry, just pointing out the ridiculous as usual.

@beardlike, “Completely mentally balanced people are going to be insurmountably less inclined to have self-doubts and insecurities.”

Have you seen completely mentally balanced people? :)

@tine, First of all, I am not defending myself (mention where, please), I just mentioned that I disagreed with you – that my opinion is different than yours. No, it’s more that I feel to defend men in general – read my previous post on why.
Secondly, all I see is bragging, telling me that it’s like that everywhere. Do you know what men are thinking for sure? No, I don’t think you do. It’s the same as if I claimed that I know what women are thinking – and I’m not, because I am not a woman – hell, I am more confused by some things about what women are thinking….

@michaelo,

–No, it’s more that I feel to defend men in general–

interesting…

– Do you know what men are thinking for sure?–

no, i never approach it from a sure standpoint, i know what to look for and when i see it, i sit back and watch and allow them to paint the portrait of who they are form their actions

allow me to ask you the same question, these men who you feel the need to defend, are you sure? because you definitely seem to think so.

woman and men are easy to understand once you know what to look for, you only see bragging because you want a reason not to believe me.

@beyond,

=D, you know i am your friend, the voice might have a lil influence here

@tine, No offense, but to me it looks like you only see what you want to see. Well, that is, of course, the negative side of looking for something specific – you easily overlook everything else.
I also think it’s interesting that I try to defend men in general, as I am usually not one doing such a thing, but no wonder when there are persons like you around….. I guess I feel some kind of “hostility” towards my gender?

@beardlike,
1. I used that stereotype to hopefully make you see how you come off when you ask stupid questions. Good work noticing.

2. Psychedelics are awesome and are way more interesting than emoticons could ever dream of being. This site originated as a site to talk about drugs, hence the name high existence. There has never been a single blog entry about cyber-flirting, tons about mind altering substances. If the site isn’t for you then don’t use it, but please don’t dumb it down for the rest of us.

3. I can obviously see that this not the only brain dead topic on the site. I’ve been a contributing member of the site for over 2 years now, there were less than 1000 members when I joined. The quality of content on this site has gradually gotten worse and worse. Arguments like your “Everyone else gets to post stupid shit, why can’t I?” aren’t helping. Seriously you tried to defend your mind numbing thread by saying that it is only slightly worse than some of the other stupid threads. You should have instead said “Thank you for calling me out when I’m whack, I understand that it is because you care. This was a stupid thread, I should start going outside more and stop thinking about stupid things.”

4. This site has the potential to be awesome again if intelligent inspired people talk about what inspires them and challenges them. You are obviously an intelligent person, and you have a chance to be a part of all of the awesomeness. But first you need to pick your mind up out of the gutter, and realize how trivial and stupid much of what you are consuming yourself is. Your brain was made to ponder over so much more than cyber-flirting and emoticons. I want to see what your capable of.

@michaelo,

–I guess I feel some kind of “hostility” towards my gender?–

you’d only feel this way if you do what i was saying, if you are not like i said most men are, then you would treat my post with indifference, your actions and the perspective through which you are responding reveals everything. there is no hostility in my words, just truth, truth if you picked a book on the differences between men and woman, you could see for yourself