Deal-Breakers in Relationships
|General Tits Von Chodehoffen|
No deal-breakers, everyone is unique and I am different from everyone in all ways.
|Obviously, you’re not a golfer|
-If she weighs more than I do. (No explanation needed.)
-Acts dumb on purpose/hides their true intelligence. It’s a bummer that some girls still in this day and age think dumb = cute. Well, as a guy, I can tell you that it’s not the case.
-Not a huge fan of capitalists/republicans/neocons, people who think money/status/family pedigree makes you better than someone. Though I probably won’t have to worry about this because I don’t think someone like that would ever be interested in me anyway.
-Not reading is also a bad sign.
-Excessive alcohol and marijuana use, and any and all super hard drug use (hallucinogens are ok though! I’m just saying, no crack/powder cocaine/heroin/meth etc. fiends….I’m not here to clean up their mess).
-No STDs, obviously.
- I’m not a huge fan of cigarette smokers, the smell is pungent and I can’t imagine how kissing one would taste very nice. Though I would not say it’s a dealbreaker because I can always hope/inspire them to quit.
-No gangsters…..I realize gangster girls are rare but all the same I don’t want to be there when shit hits the fan.
-Kids…..would have to think it over…..I know I won’t be ready for kids for a while and don’t really want to take care of some deadbeat’s kids that aren’t even mine. I would if I absolutely had to, but I really don’t want to…..that’s what their dad should have been for.
-Girls who play mindgames……mindgames are a waste of my youth and I won’t have it.
-No dreamkillers, people who always shoot down things as unrealistic. No haters on things like fantasy, which I am into. I guess that’s it!
-someone with no drive or passion(s) in life
I will never, ever date another man who plays WoW. Had a couple bad experiences with a few men. Boys. Whatever.
@LumpySpacePrincess, I read your post in a lumpy space princess voice. Hilarious.
I can’t be friends with people who harp at my free time to fill their I’m-bored time-holes
For romantic relationships, I think less about what I don’t want and more about what I do. If you don’t meet my standards, then you’re not worth my time. Simple as that. But, you have to be my friend first. I realize that I can’t date anyone I’ve just meant. I need to know him or her for a while.
That said, for friendships, I’m very lenient assuming you can get over the wall I put up, haha. I’m still working on being a little more open with people, but the people who can are generally good people. I guess being a little cautious isn’t all bad–easy to weed out the less than stellar.
She doesn’t listen to mainstream music
I have to be genuinely excited about them, stoked to be with them, happy to weave them into my life, they have to make me feel lucky…..sadly, this eliminates just about everyone.
Just like I really struggle working up the motivation to apply for jobs I’m not truly interested in, I’d have to struggle to work up the motivation to chase a girl that I’m not truly interested in.
Deal breakers in relationships is for me (ME) to blame, complain, criticize, judge, need, care. There are no deal breakers as far as the other person goes because it is totally within my power to accept.
@AARISHPATELL, “i think a lot of the other stuff you can train them to do properly or compromised” —
Romantic relationship turn-offs:
If he treats people like shit, like if his mum calls and he doesn’t answer – for no good reason.
All that being said, it’s better to focus on what I do want rather than what I don’t want.
did I mention if they don’t have any lumps worth looking or touching? LOL
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