Dreadlocks Why not?

2 years, 11 months ago

So over the past few weeks I have been exploring many diffent options with my hair to satisfy my latest surge to change my appearance because I’ve looked the same far to long. So I got to searching on my two internet staples; Youtube and Google. On my search I found some pictures of men and women with dreadlocks and on a whim I decided to start searching that. What I found was men and women with all sorts of backgrounds and lifestyles. Then I was thinking why wouldn’t I do this to my hair? Yeah there stereotypes that coinside with having dreadlocks. For example if you have dreadlocks you smoke a ton of pot, your some hippie love child, or you just don’t take care of your hair. But with most stereotypes these are not entirely true. For one your hair doesn’t dictate on how you live your life. Just because you might want dread does not mean that your going to go all organic it’s just hair and contrary to most beliefs you don’t have to shave you head once you have dreads and want to get rid of them. Yes you are basically knotting your hair up on purpose but to get mature dreads it takes time and you have to take care of them (unless you have freeform dreads but different story). In the end if you want to have dreads then go for it! It’s just hair and you can use it to express yourself in anyway you so choose.

May 8, 2012 at 12:55 pm

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Profile photo of Alicia Lee Alicia Lee (@aliwine) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

I have really thought about it, but currently I am growing my hair out to donate for making a wig. =3

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

I mean, I just hear they can get really nasty depending on the way your hair and scalp are (my scalp produces a fair amount of oil so that would really stop my dreads from forming correctly anyway). I also understand that when you stop wanting them, the hair is unsalvageable and you just have to go straight to shaved, which might suck for some.

I have seen it on people and I think my head would go crazy itching and stuff, but I think it is a cool thing to do.

@aliwine, I just cut mine for a job, which requires a more clean, male cut. I had it approaching my shoulders. I don’t get attached to my hair length, but I really don’t want to have to pay for something as stupid has hair cuts every other week. I wanted to grow it out and donate as well, but now I’ll have to wait another year.

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Profile photo of Alicia Lee Alicia Lee (@aliwine) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

@lytning91, I used to be very attached to my hair. I coloured it and styled it all the time and all my friends would comment on how nice it was. Then during my pregnancy with my son a lot of it fell out and my hair was very very thin. Then some people close to me got cancer and I realized how traumatizing it would be to go through that as well as lose hair. So I have decided to sacrifice my “prize” to others so they can feel beautiful like I do when my hair is all done up and such. It’s honestly been hard as a female (not even an overly feminine one at that) to not dye or over treat my hair. I usually just wear it in a pony tail or bun now adays since to wear it down I have to straighten it. I have the curse of cow licks, random curls and random straight spots.

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

@aliwine, I have a two, distinct double crowns (one set at the back of my head and one set at the base of where my neck hair ends) and a cowlick. When it’s long, and nice and freshly washed, it is naturally straight and sorta flicks itself up a little like I took a curling iron to it for a few seconds at each end. Like I said, I wear it long because I don’t wanna cut it because I hate styling my hair, but it can definitely look nice on its own, so I have no reason to complain there either.

What’s weird with me (and please don’t take offense, though most people do until I explain) is that I HATE seeing people do things to their hair. If I knew you with brown, medium length hair and you cut it and die it, I will have a hard time looking at you fora few days and feel really awkward around you. It has fully debilitated me a time or two to run into a close, female friend the day they decided to do something radical, and I flip my stuff.

That being said, I find dying one’s hair just unnatural in itself, so I have a hard time with it. I will never dye my hair and I am confused by people who do it to actually pretend like they have a certain color. Playful amounts, like doing highlights or something, I can tolerate. Even the ridiculous pink streaks and stuff are kinda cool. It’s just when people make it too far, I get wigged out.

I have never had an experience to make me feel obligated to donate it. I just know that people are overtly judgmental and it’s not fair to those who have things happen that stop hair growth to be judged.

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Profile photo of Alicia Lee Alicia Lee (@aliwine) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

I think after growing it out I may try some “natural” hair dyes. But I am deff not using anything toxic anymore.

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 11 months ago ago

@aliwine, well I think you’ll look great no matter what. Whatever makes YOU feel good is what you deserve. I’m just a weird guy that can’t get over hair talking ;)

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