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Paola (@paolavecuriosidad)    11 months, 2 weeks ago

Alright, so being a feminist, it’s not necessarily easy in this country. As an individual, I live by what I believe in, and I do not try to push my beliefs unto others. I don’t shave my legs, despite the fact that I’m a woman. I feel like it’s unnecessary, seeing as i wouldn’t expect a man to shave his legs. in my eyes, a woman shaving her legs is purely for pleasure purposes: women are supposed to be soft, supple, sexy, aesthetically appealing, (for the pleasure of any eyes that lay on them, men OR women). And i don’t think that’s my goal as a woman on this planet! the reason i speak so much about it is i constantly get a handful of men, MEN, who will speak with me and say “shave your legs”. no not even a “you should shave your legs,” a “SHAVE YOUR LEGS”. Like who the fuck are you? Get the fuck out of my face you misogynist bastard. A guy told me it was not hygienic, and thank you for the health lesson babe but, I shower daily. isn’t it just as unhygienic for men not to shave then? contradiction after contradiction after fucking contradiction. Women seem to not like it either as they say well that’s cool but i’m gonna keep shaving, and that’s fine, but the women i meet aren’t as passionate about feminism as i am. all i have to ask is, why does it matter to so many people? why cant i just do my own thing? fucking damn.

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Anonymous (@)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, No one will ever be glad when you’re doing your own thing, unless they too are liberated to do their own thing. It does hurt to be looked upon as some beast tarzan lady but its really your prerogative. It’s also your prerogative to act seductive for your own reasons and shaving your legs doesn’t make you an object. You don’t have any control whether you’re objectified or not. As far as make up, if you eat super healthy and exercise I bet you won’t feel the need to wear it. Healthy skin and eyes are powerfully elegant. And if someone screams at you in public to shave your legs say something like “RAPE YOURSELF”

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Paola (@paolavecuriosidad)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@anjelica, what a strong response. you’re amazing

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Ray Butler (@trek79)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, Body hair, from an evolutionary standpoint, is due to colder climates, you find people who come from regions that are predominantly warm have less body hair, like Africans.

It is also suggested that early history of man had two hominids, that were closely enough related (common ancestor) to interbreed. That there were these Neanderthal types in Europe and the Sapien types from Africa, and they cross bred to form modern man.

Neanderthals being from the cold north were hairy while the sapiens from tropical regions were hairless, they created offspring that had strengths from both species, but now humans have a range of hairiness from person to person.

Socially, hair has been looked at as both a masculine trait and an uncomfortable reminder of our prehistoric origins, that we have evolved from animals. Certain religions do not like this reminder to be so obvious, hence the cultural trends. If you look at the beard, in some cases it is seen as a sign of strength, dignity, wisdom, but in other cases seen as barbaric, unclean and lower class.

So I believe the beard is the last remaining front for humanity (religions) to hide the fact we are products of evolution. ;)

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Bryan Hellard (@xyver)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, You never answered my question.

From an evolutionary stand point, I think shaven legs are similar to blonde hair and blue eyes, it shows youth.

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Adam (@moonglade)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

Am I really the only one here who thinks a woman with a mustache, hairy legs or hairy armpits unattractive?

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Paola (@paolavecuriosidad)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@xyver, youre right i didnt. my ultimate goal is to be equal. simple enough

@moonglade no absolutely not just read through the comments. we all have our opinions about it!

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Paola (@paolavecuriosidad)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@trek79, I loved those two star treks videos you posted haha

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Flynnstone (@flynnstone)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad,
My opinion is that you should do what you want because it makes you feel good about yourself.
I consider myself a feminist but I think it may mean something different to me than for you (everyone’s definition is different, I’ve learned), and I shave my legs and underarms. I sometimes go long stretches without shaving (hey there, winter), but ultimately I do it because I like the feeling of smooth legs and I think my armpits smell more with hair, and it’s kind of weird-feeling. But that’s my opinion of myself…honestly, people criticize a lot because they’re insecure about what they’re doing and worrying that they’re not doing it “right,” but they don’t realize there is no right or wrong way to groom yourself.

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ELI var namnet (@manimal)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, “Alright, so being a feminist, it’s not necessarily easy in this country.”

-It’s not supposed to be. And if you really believe want something, it shouldn’t even matter how “easy” it is.

“As an individual, I live by what I believe in, and I do not try to push my beliefs unto others.”

-So what’s the point of this post? Contradiction? Not hating, it’s only natural to want to be heard and see if you can get people on your side.
I don’t mind that, but I don’t like lies. Why do you even feel a reason for it?

“I don’t shave my legs, despite the fact that I’m a woman.”

-See this is a strange thing to say. Where’s the law that says women should shave their legs? Why even bring it up like that?

“I feel like it’s unnecessary, seeing as i wouldn’t expect a man to shave his legs. in my eyes, a woman shaving her legs is purely for pleasure purposes: women are supposed to be soft, supple, sexy, aesthetically appealing, (for the pleasure of any eyes that lay on them, men OR women).”

-Yes, it is unnecessary. Why are you making such a big deal of it?

“And i don’t think that’s my goal as a woman on this planet!”

-Then don’t. Do what you want. Problem solved.
If people’s views of you matters so much to you, maybe you should contemplate on why you do.
Make up your mind. The glory of realizing your dream, or the lazy comfort of people’s approval? Is that a tough decision?

“the reason i speak so much about it is i constantly get a handful of men, MEN, who will speak with me and say “shave your legs”.”

-Whoa whoa whoa, hold your horses. Those are not men, they’re boys who pretend to be men. It is an insult to our kind that you confuse us with THOSE.

“Get the fuck out of my face you misogynist bastard.”

-Seriously? There’s nothing misogynist about it. A lot of people like shaved legs, doesn’t mean they’re misogynists or anything like it.
I know, the first thing they teach you in feminist school is that everyone you do not agree with is a misogynist, but that just isn’t true.

Don’t be blinded by that rubbish. You’re better than that.

“A guy told me it was not hygienic, and thank you for the health lesson babe but, I shower daily.”

-Showering daily is unhygienic, because it fucks up your skin and makes it nasty. Shaving isn’t very hygienic either. If our bodies in their natural state were unhygienic we wouldn’t have survived.
Hair is there to lead the sweat away so you don’t get rancid pools of fermenting bacteria in your pores. The horn layer of the skin is there to protect against bacteria and wear and tear, without it your skin becomes a cesspool of bacteria and dead skin cells.
That’s why they put perfume in the “hygiene” items, to hide the smell of nasty skin.

“Women seem to not like it either as they say well that’s cool but i’m gonna keep shaving, and that’s fine, but the women i meet aren’t as passionate about feminism as i am.”

-The women I meet aren’t as passionate about islamist fascism as I am.
Now why is that?
Because extremist beliefs and hate campaigns do not appeal to normal people.

“all i have to ask is, why does it matter to so many people?”

-Why does it matter so much to you?
And why does your ideology matter so much to you?

“why cant i just do my own thing?”

-Because you let other people’s disapproval and opinions of you determine your actions. Your choice.
You are free to do what you want. Just do it, fuck what other people think. They’re just haters, bystanders who are afraid of being left behind. So they try to drag everyone else into the dirt with them. Scumbags.

I am neither misogynist nor chauvinist or anything like that. But seriously, fuck feminism. It’s just a hateful rage campaign. It’s not about equality, it’s about gaining privilege and advantage.

There used to be a healthy women’s lib movement. Now there’s a bunch of flaming feminists stinking up the place and giving the real freedom and equality fighters a bad reputation. Because passive bystanders can’t tell the difference.
You’re doing more harm than good.

Feminism causes more misogyny than anything else.

And it’s so stupid.
You’re an individual. Your life is yours. Ideologists only want to leech from you, use you for their own benefit, making you a stepping stone.
You are not every woman. You are you. Do your thing.

That’s the problem with most women. Too much groupthink, no action, no taking what’s yours. It’s always we, we, we. Always gotta check with the others for approval, always gotta rely on eachother.
Is it any wonder that your predecessors were dominated by men for thousands of years, when all they did was submit, submit, submit. To fucking everything.

Snap out of it. You’re better than that.
Your life is yours. Nothing is for free. Take what’s yours, mind your own business, stand on your own damn legs.

I love women, and I love freedom. But I detest feminism. Because it’s a religion of hatred, bigotry and lies.

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Paola (@paolavecuriosidad)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@manimal, i like the points you bring up. i dont like being zealous about this kind of thing, but i can be. thanks for your input

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ELI var namnet (@manimal)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, It’s a very ironic situation.

One side yelling at you to shave your legs.

Another side yelling at you to get mad about it and fight.

Scylla and Carybdis. Trying to draw you in.
Sail straight, there will be no problem.

And so you will inspire others. Showing them what freedom is really about.

You are not just your gender. Not just your species. Not just your beliefs.
You are an individual, your will be done.

Live.

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Jare-bear (@sunshinedust)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, I’ve seen the long term effects of shaving through my mom and my sister and the hair on their legs is really thick. They’re legs never get really smooth again even right after they shave. I personally don’t want that to happen. I stopped while I was ahead. And I may wax them every once in a while but I would much rather my leg hair stay soft. :)

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Ray Butler (@trek79)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, I have a saying that no one understands but me “As morality grows, love is diminished”

I say to people on a wide range of topics; hating those who hate is still hate, you are falling into the same trap they are in.

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Alex (@imjustdifferent)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

If your not gonna shave your legs you might as well not shave anything at all and just let everything grow. Organic baby!

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Anonymous (@)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad,

I think there is a balance to be achieved… shaving legs for women is on par with men working out their chest, right? There is no real benefit to either party except the exposure to the opposite (or same for… ya know) sex.

But you can go down this road and eventually deodorant, and other general hygiene will come into question. IF you’re not going to shave your legs, why are you going to wear deodorant? Granted, if you wear pants nobody knows if you shaved your legs or not…

I mean whats the point of wiping your ass, really? Its to appeal to others, right? I mean on some level you probably don’t want to put people into agony with stench, but really its mainly to be ‘presentable and clean’.

Why do we clean our house and vacuum? Why comb and brush your hair? Why clean your face? Why work out the upper body? Why work out your butt?

I think its healthy to have a balance. Its good to REALIZE, ACCEPT, and ADMIT that you are doing some things purely for the acceptance and attention of others – doing it blindly as if its ‘correct’ or ‘morally the right thing to do’ is to me, foolish.

If you want to shave your legs (or men, work out your upper body) Admit you’re superficial and get on with life :).
You choose the rules to play this game.

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nicht (@motorik)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, “Women seem to not like it either as they say well that’s cool but i’m gonna keep shaving, and that’s fine, but the women i meet aren’t as passionate about feminism as i am.”

Real Feminism doesn’t deal with body hair. Here’s your problem, if it really doesn’t bother you, shouldn’t it be understood that you ignore criticism? I don’t think this post is about Feminism at all. I think it’s about insecurity.

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iXfactor (@Xtine)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

So I have this perspective here, feel me out on this and comment your thoughts:

Women are the more beautiful gender of our species. The first known art in history was a sculpture dating back to 3000BC times of a woman’s curvy body and full breasts (naturally, humans understand fertility=beauty). Don’t get me wrong, men can certainly be beautiful, but typically they are so compelled by the inner and outer beauty of women that they choose to express themselves in a “masculine” manner; the balance of feminine beauty is matched by the masculinity of man.

That said, embrace your womanhood! Express your natural beauty! The only form of societal conformity that is acceptable to me is when a woman meets the beauty standards because doing so is (A) as old as civilization and (B) truly gives you a happy healthy self-identity. Sure society says shave my legs, wear mascara and dress in style…and I do so because I feel gorgeous when I do! Superficial? Not as long as you don’t completely depend on this as a sole means of confidence. Feel beautiful in a nice dress, but also in sweats; the only difference would be the attention you receive, which really wouldn’t matter if you were totally self confident.

My viewpoint is essentially Confucian. Confucius said to “play your role, and play it well”. Women are dazzling creatures by nature- so be it! Use modern technology (razors, a little make-up, fashion) to your benefit in playing up your beauty role.

PS- Moderation of course. Fake boobies? Nah, B.

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Anonymous (@)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

What’s actually attractive in people is being an example of loving themselves however they are.

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Ellie (@tangledupinplaid21)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@beyond, word.

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kae (@agapeinflux)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

To shave or not to shave. That is the question. Societal pressure plays a big role in how we choose to take care of our body; it’s the classic double standard at play here. Men can get away with being hairy, though let’s not forget a shaved face is often preferred if faced with job opportunities. Being a woman depends on what you want it to mean. I don’t think you necessarily have to be donned with the “parts” to identify with a gender, nor do I think it’s absolutely essential to shave to be a woman. I dig when my legs are hairy. I also like them when they’re shaven!

I feel it’s good for me to show that side of myself to others, to be comfortable in my own skin. It also helps eliminate some of the douche bags I interact with.

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Ellie (@tangledupinplaid21)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@agapeinflux, that would be an awesome way to weed out superficial assholes.

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Priapus (@priapus)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@agapeinflux, There is no double standard. Men are not expected to shave their legs, but they are also expected to do many things women are not.

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kae (@agapeinflux)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@priapus, I don’t mean double standard towards shaving legs specificially, but moreso about keeping body hair. as men don’t have to shave everything like women do, or are at least pressured to by a silly system.

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Francina (@francina)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

Shaving your back must be really really hard.

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x (@ParalyticDreams)11 months, 2 weeks ago ago

@paolavecuriosidad, I mean you can do whatever you want. But sadly people are gonna judge no matter what. The majority of the male population enjoy women with shaved legs. It doesnt mean you HAVE to do it. But you don’t have to brush your hair either or your teeth, or wear nice clothes either. Its just more pleasant to others if you do. And one of the main reasons why you dont see the point in shaving your legs is because you dont understand a mans mind just like I dont understand a woman’s mind. The point of any living species on a biological level is to reproduce. So the more attractive you are and the more time you spend making yourself pleasant for others, the more likely your going to be able to find a compatible partner. Now I do think we have completely crossed the line in some ways as far as making ourselves pleasant for others. For example, I hate make up on women. But until the majority of men view makeup the way I do, the majority of women are going to continue wearing it because it gives them a higher chance of reproduction. This is just biologically wired into us. People are also wired to judge you for it on a subconscious level really. Because if your doing something that is seen as unattractive to others on purpose, your lessening our species chance of survival.

And just to make myself clear, not everyone judges so harshly. I don’t judge you or others whatsoever for not shaving. Its your body and your choice!

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