Have you ever gotten a bad vibe off of a person that's otherwise nice?
There’s this guy I work with back home, and he’s a really cool guy, in all instances of the word. He’ll help you out if your car is broken down, be your last minute DD, never minds sharing, always has a smile on his face. Everything points to him being a good, trustworthy guy. But for some reason, I get the most uncomfortable, eerie vibe off of him. Like he’s gonna slip something in my drink if I turn around or something. Its like an axe murderer vibe, maybe not so crazy, but its just strange. I almost feel bad about it, but I’ve told some of my close friends I work with about the vibe I get, and they get the same one.
No matter what, I trust vibes. I knew this other guy, where I’m originally from that I got this evil vibe off of. All my other friends loved the guy, but I could never get over that vibe, and thought I was just being irrational at first. Then a couple of them moved in with him and realized just how fucked up he was, and I guess you could say I was right. This makes me want to assume that when my vibe senses tingle, they are accurate, but I just dont know. Does anyone else have any similar experiences?
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@beyond, How would you ask them exactly???
@bongodeburrito, I have had bad vibes from people, and they have been right. I dont believe in spirituality etc., when I get a bad vibe I know its from things I like body language. Subtle things, things most people dont notice. Trust the vibes, maybe you dont know where they come from but you probably have them for a reason. Don’t hold them against him but remember it nonetheless.
People have to realize that you can sometimes pickup on someone else’s internal emotions and thats a good thing. I forget who said earlier ” it could be his insincerity ” this is most likely the answer to the vibe that your picking up on, there are people all around you everyday that are going through changes mentally and this will cause a person to be stuck in thought. So when you ask them something or try to socialize with them you get a reaction that your not used to and in turn you dont know what to make of it so you say ” I get a bad vibe “.When this happens your looking for an answer of some sort so you make one up like (Bad Vibe) but in reality he’s just not 100% in the moment with you. All you can do is wait for the guy to sort out what it is he’s pre-occupied about .These situations force you to think about the reality of connecting with people, it takes two peoples understanding of another to fell comfortable, if he is having difficulty understanding himself at the moment I would not take it in a negative way , its up you to bring forth some positivity to the situation.You allways want to keep a positive light on things and when you see someone having trouble to do that simple thing, its time to step up and make light of something. All we have is eachother ,you never want to let your fellow man/woman fell alone .Keeping a positive perspective on things will allways be the best thing for you.
See now if you had just stuck to your guns about people in general then mabey I would’nt even have to reply to this.I bet you know nothing factual about this guy that you work with,nothing that you can relate to at least anyway.Most likely the truth is that your dealing with your own fear of something he reminds you of. In fact you are doing all that you can to ignore the personal side of a person just because you are letting fear take over you.When you grow up you should start to see that depending on how you feal, this is how you will persieve someone.Until then pay attention to how you view people.P.S. If you smoke weed or do any drugs this will also create a feeling of disconnect between people that dont.
My dude, that is quite the assumption you are making in your post. its actually quite contradictory. You state that “I bet you know nothing factual about this guy”..yet in the same post you also state “In fact you are doing all that you can to ignore the personal side of a person just because you are letting fear take over you.”
You don’t know him, do you?
You also state “When you grow up you should start to see that depending on how you feal, this is how you will persieve someone.Until then pay attention to how you view people”
Every thing you have said is an assumption. He is doing exactly what you mention…paying attention to how he views people. That is the whole thesis behind his posting.
“Most likely the truth is that your dealing with your own fear of something he reminds you of”..or that a defensive fear mechanism is triggered in himself through the actions of this guy. None of what you say or I say is fact. Pay attention to how you communicate. :)
Well I can clear up a lot, I dont do drugs anymore, being in the military its not worth ruining my life for a few kicks and eye opening experiences for the time being. I dont interact with this guy a lot. We work different jobs, we just happen to meet every once in a while due to squadron meetings and the fact that we live in the same building. And I’m open to the guy, I dont shy away from conversation, and I gave him a chance as soon as we met, even though I got the vibe instantly, I treated him no different than anyone else. I have no dependency on interaction, I was asking to see if anyone has had a similar experience. Apparently its not uncommon. Maybe it is me picking up micro expressions. Or maybe its some preconditioned facet of my subconscious to where I dont like his face, or his voice or something random. Who the hell knows? But I do know I’m not the only one who gets it from him. Like I said before, people I know that dont consider themself as someone who picks up vibes have said they dont trust him for some reason, even though they agree he’s a really chill, nice guy that gives every reason to be trusted.
@bongodeburrito, Dude my boss at work is super nice and all that, but after talking with him I got this vibe that something was up with this dude.
I found out a little bit of time later and was told by several coworkers that he has an anger issue and kind of snaps after a certain amount of time. He snapped on me last night. I still think there’s something else lying dormant in there, but my suspicions were partially confirmed.
Aside from that, though, he’s really nice. He brought and cooked up food for everyone work on the 4th because we had to work. I’ve heard good things about other stuff he has done in the past as well.
Wait a minute so your gonna tell me you go around saying to yourself “I have a bad vibe about this person” therefor im going to blame it on him/her and try to get someone else to see what I fell by smokin them out and talkin shit about someone you know nothing about.All thats doing is staying in your own comfert zone.
Yes definitely. Always trust and follow your intuition/gut/instincts. There has been many times when I would get bad vibes from “nice people” that my friends introduce me to.. like a guy that a friend really likes and he ends up fucking her over, someone who turns out to be a backstabber, etc. And I’d warn them.. eventually the real truth comes out of the darkness.
@lytning91, Yeah, I feel you. Most of my friends give off really good vibes, mainly because I cant surround myself with negative vibes. But even strangers I meet at restaurants, servers at restaurants, or even people on planes. Some people just have this awesome air about them.
@thelightofgod, I wholeheartedly agree. It’s about giving good vibes first if you want to receive good vibes. If someone gives someone else “bad vibes” it’s not necessary to be because of them. (I’m not sure why do you even call it that) In most cases it’s not because of you. If someone is giving you “evil vibes” or whatever you like to call it, just ask them or make them to cheer up, connect in some way! It’s kind of ridiculous to even think about this. Even talking about other people… I don’t know. Maybe some people are too needy to get a positive emotional reaction the whole time. Practice self-entertainment.
If you feel like you don’t like someone, you are prejudicial, they are not giving you anything. Fucking vibes and bullshit. :D
Humans are pattern seeking animals, and where very good at discerning emotions from physical cues. Especially empaths. Whether or not your right or wrong about them being different from what they appear, if your not comfortable around them it doesn’t really matter.
Millions of years of evolution are behind why your feeling the way you do. You might be looking right into the eyes of a predator (socio/psycho-paths) so you might as well just avoid them, (when possible).
@cognizantelephant, You’re getting all scientific and intelligent on me. I dont speak with them fancy big words.
@mikeyw829, Possibly. His personality does almost seem fake. But its such a good fake.
@stephaniekaitlyn, Everything always does. I think there’s a chance I’ll figure something out when I get back there.
@comicsanmc, Sounds like sound advice to me.
Yep I know the vibes you speak of, though don’t completely understand them. It’s hilarious, so many people are starting to speak of the vibes they pick up, they call each other ‘reptilian’ and I’ve seen people avoid each other over it.
I think it’s just the micro-expressions and emotions that you’re picking up on, perhaps with the help of psychedelics. I was able to acutely tune into the personalities and energies that people were putting off while on Mescaline, an empathogen (Any substance that produces feelings of sympathy, closeness, acceptance, and peace with surrounding individuals.) Some people were happy, silly spirits and others were dark and malevolent.
Could be any number of reasons they’re putting out that eerie vibe, and it may not be directed toward you. Usually overly nice people are the ones who eventually snap, overcompensating for their passiveness with outbursts of bottled rage. If this were the dark ages I might be worried, but unless he’s threatened you or you walk all over him, people have enough morals to not act on their emotions. To be careful, like someone else said, be sure you don’t owe him anything.