A week ago i posted about how i’m not over a guy due to continuous infactuation. Well, i’m still not over him. Once again let me point out I am NOT in love. I’m not in love with the boy, i am in love with the memories. The late night walks on the golf course in my neighborhood. The dancing in the rain at a kids park at 3 o’clock in the morning. The way we could stay up all night in either mine, or his bed, JUST talking. The way he’d stare at me from across the room at awkward family gatherings at my grandmas house. The way he’d hold my hand and kiss me in front of EVERYONE because he wanted them to know i’m “his”. The way we could drive around and sing boy band songs (mostly mayday parade) and not be enbarrassed at all.
These are just a few of the things I miss more than anything.
If I made a list of EVERYTHING, you’d probably be reading for another 2 hours.
Basically, what i’m trying to say is, I’ve tried everything to get over this shit. Painting, making music, even doing the things i’m told, and not rebelling against authority. I just can’t seem to get him out of my mind, even though i don’t like him, honestly, he disgusts me.
But thats just life i guess.
Only time can heal.
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Fuck me? No, I highly doubt that would be accomplished by posting online, I even more highly doubt that was anyone’s intention.
How did you reach that conclusion?
That title could mean anything. It could be anything, for example an update such as “heartbreak isn’t real” which would be a good informative post.
You don’t get what you pay for. It’s like a Kinder surprise egg, you don’t know what’s inside until you open. And it’s usually disappointing.
@taylordacreator, good luck with everything. It’s tough road going through a break up, but good for you for realizing it is only the memories you are in love with. That’s the hardest part to let go! But there are definitely more memories ahead, don’t let the past effect the future.
@gagsface, I’m marking your comment as spam. Please watch what you post in the future.
@grandkintaro777, Well you haven’t answered my question. What about their comments is bad? For the third time, it’s easy to call someone an asshole, but what part of their actions is assholeish? They were not blowing her off, they were asking a question.
@beyond, I very much misunderstood. Even reading back to it, I still don’t get it.
Technically, no one here can be being helpful, because she never asked for any help. If anyone is being helpful, they stumbled onto it by chance, and happen to be saying what she wants to hear.
But I’ll shut up now. No one seems to be answering my question any ways, so no sense in pursuing it.
Taylor ignore them, this site is also a place where people say their thoughts to people, where they wouldn’t have to people around them. These posts are unwarranted and you guys need to realize this teenager here is only venting out in hopes of finding good advice.
Don’t let a few bad apples spoil everything.
Forums are always going to contain assholes, dwelling on their bullshit means they win. Just pass it off.
@taylordacreator, I know that this topic will be deleted soon, if all goes according to plan. But I wish you luck in moving past this, these love scenarios can be tough on people. So I will tell you what I tell myself……..just work on being the best possible “you”, remember all your interests and hobbies and dreams you had BEFORE you found the person who put your heart in a blender. You can’t let your interests and hobbies go, you know, and only have a person as your sole interest – life will get boring, and ironically, it also acts as a turn-off. And also, nothing has to be any certain way. Just because you’re alone now doesn’t mean you’ll be alone for the rest of your life. It’ll happen if you want it to. I myself have been alone my whole life, and I’m considerably older than yourself. But I know it will change. Good luck to you!
@xyver, @beyond, honestly, at this point, i think i just posted it in the wrong forum. I didn’t know there was a relationship forum. But hey, we learn from our mistakes. I wasn’t looking for attention, or pity, @yoinkie, I just didn;t word it right. IOf i had put “I need advice” or “what should i do?” then it would’ve been a reasonable post. Once again i’ll apologize for posting in the wrong forum, and/or offending you.
@grandkintaro777, Except she wasn’t asking for good advice, she was just venting.
Like I said before, how are they being assholes? It’s easy to pounce on someone and call them names, but can you support it with evidence?
@taylordacreator, And why did you feel offended? If you are looking for advice, one that’s popular around here is you have to change your perspective. So, your current perspective of the responses are that they are negative, so here you can practice having a positive perspective on things.
Like I said to grandkintaroo, it’s easy to pounce and call something a names (in this case, you’re calling a statement offensive), but can you have evidence to support your call? What about the statement makes it an offensive statement?
@taylordacreator, @beyond, @grandkintaro777, explain how I am an asshole? Especially @taylordacreator, did you read my comment? Im pretty sure I gave you the best advice you can get; a cold hard slap of reality to the face. “if you have nothing positive to say dont comment”, so thats how you want the world to work for you? So basically you are telling us that you posted this topic for the sole purpose of strangers online telling you “there there, everything will be ok.” and giving you attention, because you didnt ask for advice, nor did you ask for help. You basically asked for pity.
Still though, take my advice. You are going through something that is very common, everyone experiences it. The fact that you are letting a human being dictate your happiness towards other things is absurd, and pointless. The man disgusts you but you cant enjoy anything other then him. Let that shit go and concern yourself with making yourself happy and improving your life.
And for those of you that called us assholes; get the fuck out into the real world. Enjoy yourself a cold slap of reality once in a while. You create yourself a fairytale box where you dont want to hear any constructive criticism. The sentence, “if you have nothing nice to say dont comment” Is the SINGLE worst sentence in the entire world. That sentence is translated into, “I cant handle hearing anything negative, im too weak to face reality, so please help me pad me ego and self esteem.” You people keep acting like this and the real world will destroy you.
Let me give you all some advice; keep a few asshole friends and associates close to you always. They will do more good to your life then anyone else. A normal friend will tell you you are doing good, the girl your with is perfect, and your job is great. An asshole friend however, will tell you how it really is. The best move Ive ever made was to stop being a childish boy and grow up and learn to take negative advice, think it over, and use it to better myself. This is probably the best advice I could give to all of your, but you probably wont listen to it because its too negative. Enjoy your bubble, I guess.
@taylordacreator, When you see comments by people that show no weaknesses, remember that they’ve been through it and don’t want to remember it, because now they’re kings of their world.
Also, Heart break in the title and emphasizing on the fact that you’re not in love surely is a self-convincing bullshit. I’m also not in love with him, but I never had amazing memories with him, you know. But if you dump your pride, you might get ridiculously sincere responses here. :)
@xyver, You are an asshole too.
“The way he’d hold my hand and kiss me in front of EVERYONE because he wanted them to know i’m “his”. The way we could drive around and sing boy band songs (mostly mayday parade) and not be enbarrassed at all.
These are just a few of the things I miss more than anything.
If I made a list of EVERYTHING, you’d probably be reading for another 2 hours.”
@taylordacreator, What are you looking for by posting this? I see no questions or asking for advice, mostly something that looks like a journal entry. and Im tempted to throw out a “cool story, bro”, but I suppose we can meet somewhere in the middle.
Everyone has someone like this. There is a lot of different ways to deal with it, but mostly time is what helps the most. Get over it, there are far more important things in life to worry yourself over then some guy that disgusts you.
She was venting in hopes of someone posting something meaningful to cure her of her heart break, but instead she gets blown off to the point she got offended.
Did you also know there’s a relationship category featured on HE? People saying her venting doesn’t belong on this forum is quite idiotic.