A week ago i posted about how i’m not over a guy due to continuous infactuation. Well, i’m still not over him. Once again let me point out I am NOT in love. I’m not in love with the boy, i am in love with the memories. The late night walks on the golf course in my neighborhood. The dancing in the rain at a kids park at 3 o’clock in the morning. The way we could stay up all night in either mine, or his bed, JUST talking. The way he’d stare at me from across the room at awkward family gatherings at my grandmas house. The way he’d hold my hand and kiss me in front of EVERYONE because he wanted them to know i’m “his”. The way we could drive around and sing boy band songs (mostly mayday parade) and not be enbarrassed at all.
These are just a few of the things I miss more than anything.
If I made a list of EVERYTHING, you’d probably be reading for another 2 hours.
Basically, what i’m trying to say is, I’ve tried everything to get over this shit. Painting, making music, even doing the things i’m told, and not rebelling against authority. I just can’t seem to get him out of my mind, even though i don’t like him, honestly, he disgusts me.
But thats just life i guess.
Only time can heal.
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She was venting in hopes of someone posting something meaningful to cure her of her heart break, but instead she gets blown off to the point she got offended.
Did you also know there’s a relationship category featured on HE? People saying her venting doesn’t belong on this forum is quite idiotic.
@taylordacreator, How are they being assholes? It’s a legitimate question.
Usually people come here and ask questions, to provoke discussion. You just posted a “journal entry”, like you said, so the question of “why did you post this?” stands.
It doesn’t have to be a negative question, it’s a curiosity question. When you do something outside the norm, you will get questioned. Sometimes mean questions, sometimes nice questions, sometime neutral questions that can be taken either way. The trick is to take the neutral questions in a positive way, instead of projecting negative influence into them and making them into negative questions.
“i’m not an asshole, you are”
“no, you are!”
hahaha. stop taking yourselves so seriously :)
i think you are still attached to him because he gave you memories which made you feel good, and right now there is no one doing that for you, so you long for the feelings he gave you, not him. i say, find someone better ;) and try not thinking about him…or posting about him. hahaha. have a nice day everyone <3
So because it’s different from the “norm” it’s reasonable to blow her and her venting off?
I know you’re fond of those memories you have, but you can always try to relive those memories with someone different or create even better experiences with someone else. You probably know the chances of you guys becoming together again, but if the chances are very low, move on and try to find someone else that makes you happy.
Live in the present more then anything to create a better future, reliving your past will only create more depression. Put a lot time in your present, instead of your past and you’ll be a lot better off.
If you become heart broken again remember this message.
“If you have nothing to say to help her, why say anything at all ? Its quite easy to not say anything, I don’t see any progress here except constant arguing and name calling.”
Getting punched in the face is one of the most useful skills to learn in life. It’s a pity that there’s so few people willing to do it in real life, but atleast our online personas can learn to take a beating. She’ll thank us later.
@upset girl, I’d punch you in the face, darlin’
@ilooklikeawaterbottle, what the douce. So you tell me to fuck off because of my advice, then repeat the last line of the OP’s post, then repeat what I said? You didnt bring anything new to the table and just copied what everyone else said. Maybe you should be doing a little more of the fucking off yourself, sir.
@xyver, I really wish i knew how to delete this now hahaha, i just didn’t think it’d be wrong to post this. Like, I didn’t think people would get on my ass about it. you know?
I’m really not looking for any trouble.
@taylordacreator, I kind of agree, the post seems a little redundant to me, but hey your obviously in pain over it. Just move forward, there’s plenty of opportunities to have experiences like that again. Just don’t romanticize with it too much.