How can I stop his coke addiction?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. We get along great.. But I am a little concerned about him using coke. Every time I come over he needs to get coke. Which is everyday. Friday night we tripped, and he realized he needs to get his life back together. he is almost 20 and still living with his parents. I am trying to motivate him back into his art an acedemics. how can i get him away from this addiction with coke and partying?
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@tobiefaye, drinking makes you want cigs more, drinking makes you want coke more, drinking makes you want sex more, drinking just intensifies physical addictions.
The clingy girlfriend happened with him?
Tell him you’re not trying to be clingy, you’re just being there to help him out, as a friend, as a girlfriend. Its important to be perfectly honest in why you’re spending time with him – not just to spend the time (which is great and all) but also to be around for some support.
@xyver, I didn’t want to say “You can’t do anything about it. Live with it.” And it would be kind of unfair towards him to suggest speaking with his parents about it. If that guy needs serious help and doesn’t want help, shame. I think I have to agree with Tits here.
@versai, I don’t have a a cure for drug addiction and I don’t know anything about Vyvanse, but I do know that adderal can be equally as destructive as cocaine. Adderal can be crushed up and snorted, and you can easily get adderal without a prescription. So many kids have prescriptions to adderal these days and have an abundance of pills, it’s so easy to find, probably easier than coke. While I can’t speak on the mertis of Vyvanse having no knowledge of it, it may be a good alternative. But from first hand experience, using adderal to stop a coke addiction is a huge contradiction.
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@beyond, All the other suggestions I think are great. Spend time with him, try to distract him, get him interested in other things, those are all good ideas.
I just think if you give him an ultimatum like “it’s me or the coke” then he’ll just pick the coke.
@tobiefaye, Well there is only so much you can do;
You can tell him he may die from it (I know quite a handful of distant friends that have died from coke).
You can spend the time with him, occupy him, ask him to start a hobby (anything).
Get him involved in school?? Don’t know.
You can move on to someone else.
He’s not going to change himself if he doesn’t change anything else. We don’t work like that. He needs to move away from his coke-encouraging friends, temporarily or better yet, permanently. He needs to stop spending time around the situations that urge him to indulge – so spending time with you would be better. Or he needs to get smacked in the fucking head by a huge revelation about how shitty this is going to end up, which acid could do in the larger doses, but he has to really want to change, and something has to make him really dive into the subject (you have to bring it up at some point).