How can I stop his coke addiction?

2 years, 8 months ago

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. We get along great.. But I am a little concerned about him using coke. Every time I come over he needs to get coke. Which is everyday. Friday night we tripped, and he realized he needs to get his life back together. he is almost 20 and still living with his parents. I am trying to motivate him back into his art an acedemics. how can i get him away from this addiction with coke and partying?

May 14, 2012 at 11:47 am

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Profile photo of Alex Alex (@hollowinfinity) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

@tobiefaye, Thats a shame, LSD could solve it fer real. :)

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Profile photo of Tom Tom (@phishphan) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

He’s gonna have to realize that he has a problem on his own before he quits. Coke is stupid. It costs way to much, it only lasts for a short while (making you chase the high for hours), and it’s really bad for you. I used to use cocaine frequently until I started getting sinus infections every time I did it. I have been yola free for over four months now. That stuff is poison.

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Profile photo of Tobie Faye Tobie Faye (@tobiefaye) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

well, i was just with him.. and he said he wanted to try on this relationship. I do care about him, and i want to be a positive influence on his life, he said he would try to quit. he wants to.

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Profile photo of pat pat (@epath) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

Lots of good suggestions above, but I will had that once you have laid out the choices, let him choose. If he chooses coke over you, then leave him. Addicts love their drugs more than they love other people.

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Profile photo of patience patience (@patience) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

i’d like to add that you should constantly enforce positive ideas into his head about how his life could be better if he stops doing cocaine.

tell him about alternatives too, things that’d make him feel better than being on drugs, like exercise for example.

be supportive, and don’t scorn him if he messes it up, releasing addiction takes a lot of time and willpower.

good luck :)

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Profile photo of Ricardo Ricardo (@ricardomrodriguez) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

Personally I think you should stop trying to be a “rescuer”
You’ll keep attracting guys that need to be rescued and that isn’t healthy at all.

Why not just seek a healthy relationship with someone who’s got his shit together instead of looking for a “project”.

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Profile photo of Sisyphus Sisyphus (@sisyphus) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

Ibogaine! It’s used successfully as a psychoactive that can end addiction immediately

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Profile photo of Tobie Faye Tobie Faye (@tobiefaye) 2 years, 8 months ago ago

@ricardomrodriguez, im not trying to be a rescuer . I care about him. I want to help him. As he wants to help himself as well.

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