I need help

We never know what experiences life will bring, all we can do is live them.
Take it step by step. Meditate, find happiness where you are. Its there, I have no doubt.
Now, common mistake? Yes. Absolutely lol.  situation stigma? Also yes., I leave hope here for not so common stories, I can only speak from my experience, (and I have to say, even though HE ended up being a mistake, our relationship and resulting break up was absolutely what I needed. Though it was heart wrenching, it was one of the most healthiest things in my life. So don’t worry about the future. You will end up where you are supposed to be.)

Like he said though, YOU will change, but without knowing you personally I don’t feel like I can comment any more on that end.

Good luck, I hope it helped

@chelseadags,

Just do what makes you happy, it IS that simple. If you find that what you’re doing isn’t making you happy, then you need to reevaluated & make some adjustments. I think your parents just want you to be happy too, but they also want to impose what they’ve learned in their lives onto yours. However, there’s not much to learn from life without making any mistakes. Take what your parents say into consideration, especially if their opinion means a lot to you, but live yourself for yourself.

Stacey and I have two different points;
I say analyze it, really consider where you are going.
Stacey says just go with the flow you’ll end up where you need to be.

Do both. :) Just go with the flow, but have a little foresight where the flow is going. Don’t resist your parents either – they love you and are only worried about you.

@chelseadags trust me i know exactly how you feel… this article i read really helped me think about people’s advice (disregarding who they are in your life) a little better: http://lissarankin.com/stuff-everybody-has-no-business-saying

@ijesuschrist, thanks (: I’m not sure exactly what for, maybe for being awesome

Ah, for the perspective, now it comes to me