Is it abnormal to be so indecisive about how you feel about someone?

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Tania (@misstania)    2 years, 6 months ago

When you’re in a relationship with someone, in particular during the first few months, is it weird to feel at times, like you no longer want to be with them, while at other times you feel as though they complete you? Just wondering, since I seem to be getting a lot of mixed emotions lately…

0 votes, posted 01.01.2012 at 11:31 pm
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Em (@emily)2 years, 6 months ago ago

I don’t think that’s abnormal. I don’t know what else to say.. but I can relate :)

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R.V. Star (@rickvonstar)2 years, 6 months ago ago

Ya it’s weird. But perfectly normal.

You are associating weirdness with negativity. Cut it out. There’s plenty of weird things that are awesome and positive.

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ELI var namnet (@manimal)2 years, 6 months ago ago

It’s perfectly normal. That doesn’t mean it’s good though. Does it matter if something is normal or abnormal? NOPE.

There’s nothing wrong with these feelings, but if you worry about it it will get really bad. Don’t think so much about it, just let it go.

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Tobias Valdemar Broe Knudsen (@2bias)2 years, 6 months ago ago

I sort of have this problem right now… One of my friends seems to like me, i like her too but it’s not really a thing that i see going anywhere, she on the other hand has always depressed her own feelings so she doesen’t recognize the feeling she get’s with me, which makes it hard for me to decide wether i just go with it or it’s to much of a risk.

But i agree with the rest i think everyone has doubts at times

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R.V. Star (@rickvonstar)2 years, 6 months ago ago

try talking with the other person about it ;)

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PDC (@chemicalspike)2 years, 6 months ago ago

Totally normal. I have suffered with it for a year. I agree with Manimal for once, normal ain’t always good. I can vouch for that.

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