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2 years, 4 months ago

High school relationships, are they even worth the struggle?
I feel very pleased but yet I feel like high school is for dating several people. I’m at a loss. And unfortunately to stressed to think about my options. Help.

December 12, 2012 at 3:27 pm

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Profile photo of Nick Nick (@splashartist) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@itsemilybabe, High school dating is meant to be fun. If its stressing you out then don’t put too much energy into it.

Profile photo of Shivvy Shivvy (@shivvy) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

I saw my highschool relationships as a kind of warm-up for the real world, it gives you an idea of what you like about them and what you don’t, it lets you figure out what your ”type” is and all-in-all they’re meant to be fun. Some highschool sweethearts do make it all the way, but most don’t. The Turkey Dump is a thing for a reason. Just make sure you’re having fun in your relationships.

Profile photo of Starry Eyed BLiND. Starry Eyed BLiND. (@cristinelizabeth) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@itsemilybabe, Relationships are what everyone wants, they want to be loved and have someone to be best friends with. But honestly sometimes when people get in them they want out. But I think every relationship gives you a little lesson on what your values are for yourself and what you want out of one. It’s kinda like you’re testing the dating scene to see what you have to offer someone. How happy you can make someone. If you aren’t feeling the relationship you are in anymore simply just end it at your own pace. Something better always comes. I stressed out about relationships all throughout high school just cause I pretty much was always in one lol. For long periods of time, or just like a short lived one. Either way the times I had with them I will never forget. It’s fun to have a lil fun (: YOUNG WILD N FREEEE

Profile photo of ButternutSquash ButternutSquash (@equanimity) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

That’s up to you to decide. Do what leads you in the direction that you want to go.

Profile photo of  Anonymous (@) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

hs dating is practice imo…

practice practice practice so you can be a sexy son of a gun when you’re all growed up!

Profile photo of Matt Matt (@greenthinker) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@itsemilybabe, I am still with my high school girlfriend.

We got together sophomore year, and now it has been 5 great years. =)

It would be kind of hard to label a certain part of your life is for something, and a different part is for something else. Live life by your happiness and you can’t lose.


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