Knowing Whether a Person Shares Feelings For You

Here is your comfort zone. —————————————————————————————–>here is where the magic happens.

@Manimal – LOVED that. You write it?

All my success stories are when I barge in and say “Me Tarzan, you Jane! Lets be together”. Every single time Ive waited it out, or slowly approached my pray, no luck :p It might have something to do with how interested I am. When Im certain I like a person, I go in. If im merely interested in finding out if a person is something Id like, then Im playing it slow. Mostly because I dont want to give of the wrong signals and either make it akward, or worst of all, hurt someones feelings.

So if you know, go!

Other than that, deep stares are a good. Can you eyelock her over a distance, and just share what seems an eternity in one long hightension stare? Then you know you got something :)

People say more than they think they say. :) If you love something – leave it the fuck alone. I’m emphasizing on IT.
What’s her level of freaking out when someone tells her something like this ?
What’s your level of embarrassment if you tell her, depending if you don’t tell her?
What exactly will you win if you want more than a friend-zone relationship and isn’t it all just an imaginary obsession including sexual fantasies ?
Is she a dirty and a perversive romantic or is she a quiet self-righteous cow ?
I realized these truths once I got tired of sex and gave myself a break.
Good luck.

@Sam YOU have the y-cromosome, you’re supposed to go first and not hesitate. Just be a man, that’s what women like y’know. Biology and stuff.

@SumtinProphetic Yeah, inspired improvisation.

Ya waiting it out and taking it slow has only worked once in my whole life. You need to be assertive about this shit. Life’s too short.

just putting a girls perspective in here, usually i find when getting to know someone, romantic feelings for them just naturally progress. they show a little sign, you show a little sign (if interested) and you keep doing that till its blindingly obvious that you both feel the same way, and then it naturally just (without sounding cliched) ‘falls into place’. sometimes, a seemingly random expression of feelings may just be the push she needs to realise shes not that into you.
especially if she’s already said no a couple of times to suggestions of seeing her outside your routine walk to the bus stop, you might want to give it a little more time or give it a little more thought before you just straight out tell her how you feel.
one thing i always think to myself is is that if they’re interested, they’ll make the time/effort to talk to you/see you. its fine if she’s busy once because she might be into that bullshit playing hard to get thing – but if she quite regularly declines, you may need to re-evaluate, it’s not a nice feeling being shot down in any scenario, especially when it comes to relationships/romance.

i disagree with manimal making the sweeping statement ‘thats what women like you know.’ – definitely not always the case! completely circumstancial and differs with each woman, but i hope things work out well for you :)