Moral Conflict
| Mark
So I first off went to state that I am normally a passive person, not much a person can say to me will really make me mad, or truly upset. And this has happened more so sense I have joined HE and have started meditation and reiki practice. I have really just been able to forgive everyone and let go grudges. Life has been so wonderful until now… It all began when I started taking a lab class to accompany my bio class. I sat down in an empty table soon to be filled up with in a few minutes by all males. I know none of their names so i’ll describe them as such. One seemed very quiet and shy, the other was a foreign man who spoke pretty good English but still needed some work, and the last one was a kid who seems to be a little slower ( and I have nothing against that just stating my observation). And lastly me, seeing that no one was going to step up I took the role of kinda of the leader of the group and all was good for the first lab. It wasnt until the second lab that I found out that the shy kid was one of the biggest assholes ever! |
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| Klasky
Do the other members of your group agree with you? If so, have them tell him he’s a dick, preferably while you’re all sitting down, so that he can’t go anywhere and knows what’s what. Twisted but effective :D Psychological pressure FTW |
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| Shredder
(@shredder)
1 year, 1 month ago ago
Why not beat him at his own game? You seem pretty smart. They’re just words; use them against him. |
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| Matt
(@greenthinker)
1 year, 1 month ago ago
Are you in college? If there are no assigned lab groups, ask him politely to leave your lab group. It will probably help if you get your lab group’s support too. |
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| Mark
@Matt |
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| Shredder
(@shredder)
1 year, 1 month ago ago
He is causing you a problem and I believe you are smart enough to fix it. If he’s really being as rude as you say, and there is no reason to his rhymes, call him out on it. Make him realize the more he talks the more he looks stupid. I’m sure no one wants to hear what he has to say. He won’t have a choice but to change his tune or stfu. |
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| Shredder
(@shredder)
1 year, 1 month ago ago
In the end if it is just words he’s using then there doesn’t have to be a problem because you don’t have to pay them much mind. |
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| Mark
@shredder |
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| Brandon P’naantan Pinkney
(@hlalhabattu)
1 year, 1 month ago ago
what @shredder said, and if it persists next class after you’ve called him out in front of everyone in the group, then your only real (nonviolent) option is to kick him out of the group…if he wants to act like shit, let him be expelled like it |
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| Sasho Stoyanov
@swifti, Develop a sense of humor. Make fun of yourself with self-irony and how serious you get, because being so serious just contradicts with your “usual” calm behavior, and I didn’t understand what the fuck you just said – that is – without looking like an idiot. Apparently you don’t know how to make fun of him and he doesn’t know how to mock people without hurting them. Or maybe you’re exaggerating and “the slow” kid doesn’t give a fuck. By the way, how do you protect someone if you call them “the slow”? What was “the dick” doing again? Calling people bad names? ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS? |
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