My boyfriend is extremely insecure…
@beyond, really good point. I might bring that up.
@stereofidelic, Mother Theresa said that if you tell someone what they want to hear you are loving yourself. Only if you tell someone what they need to hear are you loving them. I agree with her.
@bobbylloydxd, You really do bring up a lot of good points. And it is something that I have been afraid of voicing in order to steer clear of getting him upset or angry, but you’re right. I can’t coddle him forever. He needs to grow a spine. Maybe being completely honest will put things into perspective.
@stereofidelic, honesty has done great things for me and I try to practice it often. Some people feel that I am rude or too confrontational, but I know that my heart is in the right place. I sleep very well at night.
It is a really incredible feeling to be able to expose your thoughts honestly and not be ashamed of them. I believe that it allows for deeper understanding and deeper love in all relationships.
If you ever feel that you need to hide parts of yourself, you should seriously consider why that is. It’s probably not worth it. If someone cannot accept you as you are, they do not truly love you and are not worth your time.
@stereofidelic, If you can’t be honest with him what are you doing together with him?
It makes me kind of sick that you told him he’s the biggest you’ve had. Did he fucking ask? Or did you just feel the need to tell him? Either way is wildly inappropriate.
@stereofidelic, Here’s a wild guess: tell him his ding dong is not what makes him a man, and that he should try to focus on the world, because what he does in the world defines him as much, if not more, than what he is. He has the ability, it’s just covered up by youthful insecurity. The sooner he gets over that, the better.
@danfontaine, Size matters but in the opposite way you would think. Because of that particular ex, I refuse to date someone that would hurt me essentially. Which is something I have talked to my boyfriend about. He still feels insecure.
@boribori90, good point.
@danfontaine, To be honest, I told him that he was absolutely perfect. At least size wise. It may be too much info, but I tried reassuring him that what he had I was more than happy with.
@xyver, Lol I wouldn’t know either but hopefully its not too uncomfortable; if so, snake like jaws will be a prerequisite for my future wife.
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