My boyfriend is extremely insecure…

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kaysteady
(@stereofidelic) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@beyond, really good point. I might bring that up.

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Bobby
(@bobbylloydxd) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@stereofidelic, Mother Theresa said that if you tell someone what they want to hear you are loving yourself. Only if you tell someone what they need to hear are you loving them. I agree with her.
You say that you don’t want to come across as a bitch. This makes it appear that you are more concerned with your image than helping him. He is already feeling a blow to his pride, being treated like a child probably won’t help. He needs to be a man and to be expected to act like a man.
Tell him to act like an adult or to cry to his mom about his problems. He should apologise and realise that he is being a baby. If he doesnt its no longer your problem. He can choose to be sad about his dick for as long as he wants.

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kaysteady
(@stereofidelic) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@bobbylloydxd, You really do bring up a lot of good points. And it is something that I have been afraid of voicing in order to steer clear of getting him upset or angry, but you’re right. I can’t coddle him forever. He needs to grow a spine. Maybe being completely honest will put things into perspective.

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Bobby
(@bobbylloydxd) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@stereofidelic, honesty has done great things for me and I try to practice it often. Some people feel that I am rude or too confrontational, but I know that my heart is in the right place. I sleep very well at night.

It is a really incredible feeling to be able to expose your thoughts honestly and not be ashamed of them. I believe that it allows for deeper understanding and deeper love in all relationships.

If you ever feel that you need to hide parts of yourself, you should seriously consider why that is. It’s probably not worth it. If someone cannot accept you as you are, they do not truly love you and are not worth your time.

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Attention DEF
(@danfontaine) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@stereofidelic, If you can’t be honest with him what are you doing together with him?
My ex ex had huge ta tas and my ex had relatively small ones. I could tell this bothered her immensely at first but it was just laughable to me. Because the truth of the matter is that breast size has little importance to a non-materialistic minded person. My honesty prevailed in comforting her.
Look chick.. if you like guys with big shlongs, break up with the dude. If you find his penis unattractive at all, break up with him. He’s better suited with someone with a tighter vagina.

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Attention DEF
(@danfontaine) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago 3

It makes me kind of sick that you told him he’s the biggest you’ve had. Did he fucking ask? Or did you just feel the need to tell him? Either way is wildly inappropriate.

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AutumnMan
(@boribori90) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@stereofidelic, Here’s a wild guess: tell him his ding dong is not what makes him a man, and that he should try to focus on the world, because what he does in the world defines him as much, if not more, than what he is. He has the ability, it’s just covered up by youthful insecurity. The sooner he gets over that, the better.

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kaysteady
(@stereofidelic) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@danfontaine, Size matters but in the opposite way you would think. Because of that particular ex, I refuse to date someone that would hurt me essentially. Which is something I have talked to my boyfriend about. He still feels insecure.

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kaysteady
(@stereofidelic) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@boribori90, good point.

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kaysteady
(@stereofidelic) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@danfontaine, To be honest, I told him that he was absolutely perfect. At least size wise. It may be too much info, but I tried reassuring him that what he had I was more than happy with.

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TaureanH
(@taurean10) 6 months, 4 weeks ago ago

@xyver, Lol I wouldn’t know either but hopefully its not too uncomfortable; if so, snake like jaws will be a prerequisite for my future wife.

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