Need advice ASAP
@beyond, Do you think that love is a pink and wonderful land filled with faires and unicorns? No, love and sex are a tumultuous rollercoaster ride, and part of that is the unequal roles between people in it. if their relationship has someone hurt and vulnerable, then then that form of degradation can be a turn on.
@stonedragon21, Misery loves company. I agree completely. :)
@trek79, I quoted the person who took the words right out of my mouth. There was no point re-writing/wording what someone else had already said several posts up.
@beyond, Yeah, sorry about generalizing Eastern Europe like that, I was crazy drunk. Just Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia, the Balkans, the Slavic countries and the former U.S.S.R states have a reputation as a rough area of the world.
@staylucky, Yes, when a person knows they can give you shit and get away with it, it leaves you wide open for more abuse. It is just that people look at relationships as a power game and that is where they screw up.
@trek79, And I was guilty of playing power games myself. Knowing such things from experience is never a great thing but I am happy that I am learning from it.
@ziggy, good timing. Sometimes people need to grow apart to realize the bigger picture; seems like the right girl at the right time. Bagg it dude, you got this. Dont let her get away
date her but with a large grain of salt
@ziggy, you might as well try to accept her for now. Who knows? Maybe her experience getting burned was a real eye-opener and she won’t take you for granted this time, if you treat her right. The future isn’t certain, she might be the same as she was, she might have matured….maybe you can bring out the best in her by being an example of an awesome person. I say you might as well take a chance on her, you’ll never know until you do!
Go with your heart says <3
@ziggy, date her for a month and treat her like a queen, get laid and then dump her ass. Dont waste too much money though.
Can your heart handle her potentially leaving you in 3 months time? If yes, then go for it. Worst case scenario you get laid and then you’re a free man again. If not, then don’t do it.
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