Need advice ASAP

2 years, 1 month ago

So,let me start from the very beginning;November of last year,I asked out a girl.You could call her my first love.She rejected me.I got heartbroken.

On a side note,I started writing because of this heartbreak.Thanks to her.

Then,after a few weeks,I heard she went out with another guy.Well,good for her,I thought.

Now,circa November of this year,they broke up.She’s hurt,like a lot.

Then,she goes to a friend of mine,and says she realizes that my love for her was true,and that the other guy was just playing with her.About fuckin’ time,my friend says.

After some time,she comes to me and says pretty much the same thing.Also that she shouldn’t have rejected me like that.

Now,I’m torn;Should I accept her? And carry on from where I left off? Or reject her?

December 14, 2012 at 12:32 am

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Profile photo of Sasho Stoyanov Anonymous (@) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@stonedragon21, Misery loves company. I agree completely. :)

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Profile photo of Alex Alex (@staylucky) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@trek79, I quoted the person who took the words right out of my mouth. There was no point re-writing/wording what someone else had already said several posts up.

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Profile photo of Ray Butler Ray Butler M (@trek79) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@beyond, Yeah, sorry about generalizing Eastern Europe like that, I was crazy drunk. Just Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia, the Balkans, the Slavic countries and the former U.S.S.R states have a reputation as a rough area of the world.

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Profile photo of Ray Butler Ray Butler M (@trek79) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@staylucky, Yes, when a person knows they can give you shit and get away with it, it leaves you wide open for more abuse. It is just that people look at relationships as a power game and that is where they screw up.

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Profile photo of Alex Alex (@staylucky) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@trek79, And I was guilty of playing power games myself. Knowing such things from experience is never a great thing but I am happy that I am learning from it.

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Profile photo of LesterJohn LesterJohn (@lesterdeguzman) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@ziggy, good timing. Sometimes people need to grow apart to realize the bigger picture; seems like the right girl at the right time. Bagg it dude, you got this. Dont let her get away

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Profile photo of Woodsy Woodsy (@woodsy) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

date her but with a large grain of salt

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Profile photo of TheSkaFish TheSkaFish M (@theskafish) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@ziggy, you might as well try to accept her for now. Who knows? Maybe her experience getting burned was a real eye-opener and she won’t take you for granted this time, if you treat her right. The future isn’t certain, she might be the same as she was, she might have matured….maybe you can bring out the best in her by being an example of an awesome person. I say you might as well take a chance on her, you’ll never know until you do!

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Profile photo of kendra kendra (@somuchlovetogive) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

Go with your heart says <3

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Profile photo of apricelessgoat apricelessgoat (@aworthlessgoat) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@ziggy, date her for a month and treat her like a queen, get laid and then dump her ass. Dont waste too much money though.

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Profile photo of Shivvy Shivvy (@shivvy) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

Can your heart handle her potentially leaving you in 3 months time? If yes, then go for it. Worst case scenario you get laid and then you’re a free man again. If not, then don’t do it.

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