So,let me start from the very beginning;November of last year,I asked out a girl.You could call her my first love.She rejected me.I got heartbroken.
On a side note,I started writing because of this heartbreak.Thanks to her.
Then,after a few weeks,I heard she went out with another guy.Well,good for her,I thought.
Now,circa November of this year,they broke up.She’s hurt,like a lot.
Then,she goes to a friend of mine,and says she realizes that my love for her was true,and that the other guy was just playing with her.About fuckin’ time,my friend says.
After some time,she comes to me and says pretty much the same thing.Also that she shouldn’t have rejected me like that.
Now,I’m torn;Should I accept her? And carry on from where I left off? Or reject her?
@beyond, Yeah, sorry about generalizing Eastern Europe like that, I was crazy drunk. Just Serbia, Croatia, Bosnia, the Balkans, the Slavic countries and the former U.S.S.R states have a reputation as a rough area of the world.
@staylucky, Yes, when a person knows they can give you shit and get away with it, it leaves you wide open for more abuse. It is just that people look at relationships as a power game and that is where they screw up.
@ziggy, you might as well try to accept her for now. Who knows? Maybe her experience getting burned was a real eye-opener and she won’t take you for granted this time, if you treat her right. The future isn’t certain, she might be the same as she was, she might have matured….maybe you can bring out the best in her by being an example of an awesome person. I say you might as well take a chance on her, you’ll never know until you do!