So,let me start from the very beginning;November of last year,I asked out a girl.You could call her my first love.She rejected me.I got heartbroken.
On a side note,I started writing because of this heartbreak.Thanks to her.
Then,after a few weeks,I heard she went out with another guy.Well,good for her,I thought.
Now,circa November of this year,they broke up.She’s hurt,like a lot.
Then,she goes to a friend of mine,and says she realizes that my love for her was true,and that the other guy was just playing with her.About fuckin’ time,my friend says.
After some time,she comes to me and says pretty much the same thing.Also that she shouldn’t have rejected me like that.
Now,I’m torn;Should I accept her? And carry on from where I left off? Or reject her?
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Guh. What a loaded question. There is no “right” or “wrong” answer, only what you feel falls in line with YOUR best interest at this point. Ask yourself questions about the situation, and if you’re leaning one way or another, ask yourself HOW and WHY you’ve come to this conclusion.
@ziggy, you might as well try to accept her for now. Who knows? Maybe her experience getting burned was a real eye-opener and she won’t take you for granted this time, if you treat her right. The future isn’t certain, she might be the same as she was, she might have matured….maybe you can bring out the best in her by being an example of an awesome person. I say you might as well take a chance on her, you’ll never know until you do!
Take a chance, accept her. Girls are more complex than they are said to be. Girls will always go for the asshole, get heartbroken, and see when they truly want (a guys like you!). If she seems sketchy though, dump her ass