Need some good “self-improvement” things for a friend

3 years, 2 months ago

Hey guys, I have a friend that has some self-confidence issues and wants some advice, but I don’t know exactly what advice to give him. I need some good ideas, whether its personal advice or a website, or maybe just a way of thinking– anything helps :)
Thanks in advance guys :)

January 23, 2012 at 12:36 am

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Profile photo of Stephen Stephen C (@stepvhen) 3 years, 2 months ago ago

How about his self image is just a self image and instead of focusing on his self image why not focus on his unique human faculties? Allow them to posses and dominate his existence and to hell with self image?

That’s what I’d tell him.

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Profile photo of Alex Eastman Alex Eastman (@alex) 3 years, 2 months ago ago

could you elaborate stephen? I’m not sure if I get what you’re saying.

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Boxing fixes that.

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Profile photo of Stephen Stephen C (@stepvhen) 3 years, 2 months ago ago

Tell him not to worry so much about how he perceives himself or how others perceive him but instead focus the things that make him unique, his skills n talents, express those let the rest go to hell

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Profile photo of Alex Eastman Alex Eastman (@alex) 3 years, 2 months ago ago

Ah. That’s what I thought you were getting at. Thank ya.

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Profile photo of ButternutSquash ButternutSquash (@equanimity) 3 years, 2 months ago ago

You could help him conquer a fear or self-limiting belief. A lot of what turned my life around was my willingness, if even for a moment, to face any type of anxiety or fear that I knew held me back.

Meditation is also something I’m sure almost everyone on this site would suggest.

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