Question for the dudes.

2 years, 1 month ago

a. Do you think it’s attractive if a chick smokes mad weed?

b. Or if you’re just like smoking a bowl to yourself and offer her some and she just doesn’t wanna toke, do you think it’s her choice. Obviously it is but, would you be more open to her if she toked with you.

December 25, 2012 at 4:56 pm

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Profile photo of Eric Eric M (@blankey) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth,

a) yes.

b) depends if it is just her and I or a group of people. Group, she can do whatever. Just me and her? She should join in so we are on the same level.

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Profile photo of Baked Banana Baked Banana (@bakedbanana) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

A – Yes please! A chick smoking weed is one of the hottest things if you ask me
B – As long as she gives me arguments, ‘just because everybody think it’s bad, I think it’s bad.
And remember, smoking weed is all about enjoying life, enjoying life is not all about smoking weed.

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Profile photo of Kyle Kyle (@kyle) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, For some reason I find a girl being stoned highly unattractive. I don’t care if I go out with a girl that smokes it here and there, but probably would ask not to see her stoned.

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Profile photo of Kazi Kazi (@kazi) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

out of experience, stoned female friends are too ridiculous, but some do maintain themselves. for me personally the idea that a girl smokes or does drugs is attractive to me, since i feel like it is something we can relate with and as someone else had mentioned, to “be on the same level as”

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Profile photo of E.C.F. Doyle E.C.F. Doyle (@chekovchameleon) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, I would find her desire to smoke weed neither attractive, nor unattractive. I used to smoke “mad weed” and many of my friends do and many don’t. I wouldn’t think anything of it either way, as long as they are happy.

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Profile photo of AP_RESURRECTION AP_RESURRECTION (@AARISHPATELL) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

i like to smoke, but i only like to be around those who are cool to smoke with, so

if you can do it and still act cool and not super emotional or paranoid then its cool, otherwise i would prefer the girl to be sober and normal

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Profile photo of  Anonymous (@) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, Wow, I wish I would get this many responses when I make a post.. I should change my profile picture to an attractive woman.

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Profile photo of skylerpants skylerpants (@skylerpants) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, a) of course, but that’s just from my perspective aha. As long as it doesn’t affect her personality/lifestyle in a negative manner. Some of the most interesting girls i have ever met were stoners, and they were chock full of ambition and enthusiasm stoned or not.

b) It all depends on the situation. Some people feel weird if they’re the only person high in a scenario, but I don’t think it should matter, it’s not like the other person is tripping balls and unable to interact with aha. But I will speak for most guys when I say that we would enjoy sharing the experience of both being high together much more, in comparison to being stoned by ourselves.

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, It doesn’t bother me and it’s definitely her choice, but I’m not really a huge fan…I had some really terrible experiences after the multiple times I gave it a shot.

Basically it makes me feel sick or just super tired. The only time I have ever actually been stable afterward was when I was took drunk to notice any extra effects.

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Profile photo of danielsun danielsun (@danielsun) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth,
a) it doesn’t matter if you smoke weed or not, or how much weed you smoke as long as your the one smoking it and not the other way around, as long as you control it and be able to do anything you would do sober and even more, heck ill smoke one with you =)

b) from experience i can tell you that when your around people that are getting high and you don’t smoke with them you’re not involved in their trip.. and you might even end up getting bored, but again that’s from what iv seen.

bottom line, i personally like my gf to get high with me because we have so much fun and it makes a unique bond with the person after a while, but again alot of my gf dont get high and we still have a blast.

Daniel Sun

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Profile photo of Erich Eisenhart Erich Eisenhart C (@eyeslikeskies) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth,

a) If the intention is to embrace life under the influence instead of running or hiding from something, then not at all. Bring on the ganj.

b) This is interesting because I smoke marijuana and my girlfriend does not. I have offered her many times, she is completely open to me doing so, but somehow she just does not want to try.

I try to understand why. I have described to her the amazing potential cannabis holds to change one’s sense of self. How it opens the heart. Yet she wants not to partake.

To be honest, it hurts me that she doesn’t want to take that step. I see how she could benefit even from just one toke. I also wonder whether she trusts me or not.

So it does bother me. I don’t feel as if she’s completely open with me. From a selfish, stoner sense. It does.

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I like girls who have similar smoking habits to me.

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Profile photo of Starry Eyed BLiND. Starry Eyed BLiND. (@cristinelizabeth) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

Very Interesting… I would tag all y’all back but I feel like that’s too much ha. I like the honest points of view. And honestly I understand everyone’s, because I remember when I was a pot head and my friend didn’t wanna smoke with our group of friends I would be like wowww you suckkk. I guess I just think that people think you aren’t as chill if you aren’t down with the trees. But honestly I just think it’s up to the person whether they are down or not, I just think the ones who do smoke get offended when the other party doesn’t want to , or thinks that they are different from the other person. Which may be true in some senses but either way the people involved should still be themselves. I know when i’m high I usually don’t give a fuck, i’m just like yeah buddy. But if I don’t know you all that well or know what you’re about , I get sketched cause I hate not knowing where people are in their lives it freaks me out. Lol. #trustissues. That’s why i just refrain from smokin with new people usually ,

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, I’ll tell you one thing: for about 2 years I was that guy. I was the one person that didn’t smoke with anyone, including the people who I was closest to that would never stop telling me OVER and OVER that they wanted to be there for my first time, like it was some sort of significant thing for them.

I was never that interested in weed to begin with, so I never saw it that way, but let me tell you I know what it takes to be chill in a room full of people who just found out you are, for some reason, not going to smoke with a bunch of stoners. I never really needed it though. If you’re genuinely interested in the people you are around it doesn’t really take much effort I guess.

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Profile photo of Starry Eyed BLiND. Starry Eyed BLiND. (@cristinelizabeth) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@alanwatts, thanks :P

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Profile photo of cadeus cadeus (@cadeus333) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

My wife doesn’t smoke, I find her very attractive. Sometimes I wish she did smoke, but it’s not a deal breaker at all.

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Profile photo of Starry Eyed BLiND. Starry Eyed BLiND. (@cristinelizabeth) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@lytning91, Haha don’t you hate that situation though? It’s like oh, you aren’t one of us, I’m now going to label you as not chill as fuck like we are. I thought weed was a love drug, not a labeling drug of coolness aha. I agree. People are interesting either way, usually… unless they’re just like a wall hah

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Profile photo of DaJetPlane DaJetPlane M (@lytning91) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, Nah the people I was around didn’t care and they liked me just the same. If it makes a difference to you that I don’t smoke it’s cool by me, because we certainly don’t have to be friends. Anyone let’s something stupid like that step in the way of friendship…I ain’t got time for ya.

And yeah, weed is supposed to be about chillin’ and lovin’ one another but there’s always that group that’s gotta ruin it. And you also have the media to blame for portraying it as the thing that “cool people” do. There’s always someone out there trying to spin it.

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Profile photo of Clovers Clovers (@clovers) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth,

A. Yes

B. Yes, it would be somewhat unattractive if she turned it down. Not because of the fact that she turned it down, but because I would assume she likely had some unattractive conservative values. If she had a legitimate reason to not want to, it’d be fine.

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Profile photo of Nick Nick (@splashartist) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, Not at all. If a girl smokes once and awhile I’m totally chill with it as it represents an open mind to some degree. However, if she smokes ‘mad’ amounts I find that very unattractive as it represents an addictive personality. People may deny that being a stoner isn’t an addiction, but for the most part it totally is. Of course this addiction is mental. Also, I don’t want to be around someone who’s stoned whenever I see them and I’m sober.

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Profile photo of Brandon Phillips Brandon Phillips (@brandonphillips) 2 years, 1 month ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, smoking cigarettes is more unattractive. I don’t smoke anything but I suppose I wouldn’t care if she smoked every now and then, of course not too much to where it’s all she thinks about.

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Profile photo of ELI var namnet ELI var namnet (@manimal) 2 years ago ago

a. Fuck no. Repulsive. Occasional use is ok I guess, but druggies are fucking lame.

b. Nope. I don’t want girls who can’t fuckin think for themselves. Pushover girls are a bore.

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Profile photo of blake blake (@onewithyomoma) 2 years ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, A. its here choice how much weed she smokes i dont think it makes her more or less attractive
B. i mean i turn down weed all the time i mean sometimes you have just been just too high for too long and you dont wanna stop being so damn confused for just a sec and sometimes youre still catching your breath from the last bong hit

either way it dosnt matter just do what you feel like dont adjust your life to seem more attractive

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