Question for the dudes.
a. Do you think it’s attractive if a chick smokes mad weed?
b. Or if you’re just like smoking a bowl to yourself and offer her some and she just doesn’t wanna toke, do you think it’s her choice. Obviously it is but, would you be more open to her if she toked with you.
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@facets, Sounds legit.
@optimystic, yeah the question was a scenario kind of deal, But I see that it’s just weed, but for some people weed is like a lifestyle haha. Murry Christmass.
@theskafish, Yeah I understand that now, I was just curious if a dude was a smoker and hung out with a girl who doesn’t really smoke anymore if he would be like taken away by it a little but. But I suppose if they did, then that’s their own problem right? yeah well I used to smoke mad weed too lol I just don’t find it fun anymore. I can think open minded without marijuanica lol (Adam Sandler reference) . . .
Mad weed? No…like someone said if it is necessary for everything then that is no fun.
If she is totally opposed to it, but drinks alcohol, and won’t listen if it is explained…that’s a dealbreaker. But that’s just being ignorant and disrespectful about something I care about and that being a dealbreaker is not limited to cannabis. If she was teetotal then I wouldn’t mind at all that she didn’t toke. I would be awesome if she could get into a spiritual/trancelike place without it but I had to go down the cannabis route to get there though I know it is just one way of getting there.
Now and again would be best. I don’t think with my friends though, they are more like the first sentence and I would like those worlds a little separated. Just as I wouldn’t want her to come out drinking with us to the point of illness or whatever, I don’t like seeing the herb abused at all…but it appears that sometimes, especially at 21, excess is the name of the game. I can play along and handle it but I wouldn’t want to involve a cool girl in that.
Umm…yeah, that’s it. Super nice but not essential. Hypocrisy and bliss in ignorance is a no-no though. :)
Oh, me being open and around cannabis would only work if she didn’t smoke up with me and friends ‘to get high’ if you know what I mean. :\
@cristinelizabeth, A. its here choice how much weed she smokes i dont think it makes her more or less attractive
B. i mean i turn down weed all the time i mean sometimes you have just been just too high for too long and you dont wanna stop being so damn confused for just a sec and sometimes youre still catching your breath from the last bong hit
either way it dosnt matter just do what you feel like dont adjust your life to seem more attractive
A – Yes please! A chick smoking weed is one of the hottest things if you ask me
B – As long as she gives me arguments, ‘just because everybody think it’s bad, I think it’s bad.
And remember, smoking weed is all about enjoying life, enjoying life is not all about smoking weed.
Very Interesting… I would tag all y’all back but I feel like that’s too much ha. I like the honest points of view. And honestly I understand everyone’s, because I remember when I was a pot head and my friend didn’t wanna smoke with our group of friends I would be like wowww you suckkk. I guess I just think that people think you aren’t as chill if you aren’t down with the trees. But honestly I just think it’s up to the person whether they are down or not, I just think the ones who do smoke get offended when the other party doesn’t want to , or thinks that they are different from the other person. Which may be true in some senses but either way the people involved should still be themselves. I know when i’m high I usually don’t give a fuck, i’m just like yeah buddy. But if I don’t know you all that well or know what you’re about , I get sketched cause I hate not knowing where people are in their lives it freaks me out. Lol. #trustissues. That’s why i just refrain from smokin with new people usually ,
A. Seeing an activity consume a significant portion of someone’s life that isn’t ‘productive’ is rarely an attractive quality, so if a girl smokes a lot of weed to the point of excess or even dependency it’s an unattractive quality.
B. I wouldn’t mind if she accepted or declined the offer, as it’s not a significant enough part of my life to matter. However, If she accepted after having never tried it before I would infer an openness to new experiences and some sense of curiosity, both important qualities to me that I would find appealing!
a- My current gf used to smoke weed. She knows I don’t smoke and I told her although I won’t make her stop if she doesn’t want to, I won’t like it and it may hurt me inside. To me, it’s an unappealing and unattractive image.
@cristinelizabeth, I’ll tell you one thing: for about 2 years I was that guy. I was the one person that didn’t smoke with anyone, including the people who I was closest to that would never stop telling me OVER and OVER that they wanted to be there for my first time, like it was some sort of significant thing for them.
I was never that interested in weed to begin with, so I never saw it that way, but let me tell you I know what it takes to be chill in a room full of people who just found out you are, for some reason, not going to smoke with a bunch of stoners. I never really needed it though. If you’re genuinely interested in the people you are around it doesn’t really take much effort I guess.
@sisyphus, i was just joking around…@cristinelizabeth, mentioned the adam sandler hanukah song so i just added the lyric. I don’t hate, nor do I preach, to people who choose to smoke, in fact I’m all for legalization and for the idea of dealing with weed rationally instead of treating it like witchcraft. It’s just not something I’m interested in anymore, myself. All it’s done for me is make me laugh at nothing, eat too much junk food, and be all too satisfied with melting into a couch instead of having experiences. It makes me too comfortable for my own good.
out of experience, stoned female friends are too ridiculous, but some do maintain themselves. for me personally the idea that a girl smokes or does drugs is attractive to me, since i feel like it is something we can relate with and as someone else had mentioned, to “be on the same level as”
I think weed is smoked to feel like relaxed and it’s like a comfort blanket like it makes you forget about stuff that trouble your mind. Honestly I would rather a person that does that on their own, handles things with a sober mind, doesn’t that make you more level headed? To be able to address your issues head on, and to feel comfortable and relaxed with someone with out being stoned. I don’t necessarily mind if a guy smokes weed because, well mostly everyone does, and it’s their choice if they want to or not, I just wish we could be on the same level when he was not high . you know. haha
A: Depends what you mean by ”mad” weed. If by that you mean I can notice a significant difference based on whether or not she has weed available to her, then yes it’s very unattractive. But that would apply to my guy friends too, if you become dependent on it then you have a problem. But if a girl just likes to smoke here and there? (even if it’s daily) Yeah that’s alright, I used to smoke weed myself and see no problems with it.
B:Of course it’s her choice, any guy who judges a woman based on whether or not she smokes is being way too superficial in my opinion.
@cristinelizabeth, I used to find it unattractive, but since my mind has opened up a lot and now I find it quite enjoyable to share the experience with a woman. If she smokes mad weed and not cigs its a major turn on for me, but maybe I’m just describing my ex ;) she was cool. A girl who has the willpower to avoid smoking weed if its not right for her at the point of her life is also a huge turn on. So now I’m concluding it’s rad when a chick is just being herself.
i like to smoke, but i only like to be around those who are cool to smoke with, so
if you can do it and still act cool and not super emotional or paranoid then its cool, otherwise i would prefer the girl to be sober and normal
a) its never a bad thing to smoke. period. unless you’re wrecking your life over it… then it’s time to reconsider.
b) if a girl doesn’t wanna smoke with you obviously its her choice, but it makes her SO MUCH cooler. :)
@lytning91, Haha don’t you hate that situation though? It’s like oh, you aren’t one of us, I’m now going to label you as not chill as fuck like we are. I thought weed was a love drug, not a labeling drug of coolness aha. I agree. People are interesting either way, usually… unless they’re just like a wall hah