Role Switch.

2 years, 3 months ago

Guys are become like little prissy my way or the high way girls, and women are the one ones who make the shots. WE WANT A REAL MAN NOT A MOMMAS BOY, WE LIKE ROUGH MEN
Someone who can hold shit down, But no, the girl has to do that now. So pussy wins, and can make a guy do anything, (I don’t do that with my relationships but it is out there and you need to as a guy be aware if you weren’t haha)

November 23, 2012 at 6:46 pm

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Profile photo of MPHill MPHill (@everymorningbornfromtheashes) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

The world takes all kinds. If who you are willing to deal with is important to you deal with it, I suppose the same could be said the opposite way XD I am glad women are equaling out to men, and men don’t have to be someone they are not. Don’t let people take advantage of you, don’t take advantage of a situation. My suggestion is people shouldn’t settle for anyone. Guys do need to step up to the plate, as well as women. No one should depend. Your conclusion was very interesting.

Profile photo of  Anonymous (@) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

I hate the phrase ‘real man’, and ‘real woman’ for that matter. All men are real, as are all women, and anyone in between.

I’m sorry that you feel this way, and think you should try broadening your horizons if you’re not finding what you’re looking for. It’s a pretty massive generalisation too. For a start not all men are like that, and secondly not all women are looking for that. I like holding shit down. I kind of own it.

Profile photo of Kyle R. Willis Kyle R. Willis (@masochism) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

Not all guys are ass holes, just as not all guys are pussies. Not all women need to be protected, just like not all women like rough men. It’s personal preference. Some people don’t know WHAT the hell they like. That’s the beautiful thing about people; our diversity. There’s someone out there with the exact specific makeup for everyone. The journey to find that person is what makes life interesting and grand.

Profile photo of MPHill MPHill (@everymorningbornfromtheashes) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

@siantastic, well said

Profile photo of Starry Eyed BLiND. Starry Eyed BLiND. (@cristinelizabeth) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

Yes, you all make sense. I’m not biased on this, but honestly from what I see out of general relationships is that. I know not all guys and all girls fit into this. But i really do feel like woman are more mature than men. This thought came from me talking to a single mom at my work about guys and them being like this. Don’t get me wrong they can still be huge tuffies in front of their friends but most of them are worse than girls and really sensitive sometimes. but i suppose everyone can be. I dunno

Profile photo of MPHill MPHill (@everymorningbornfromtheashes) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, It is okay to blow off steam, just realize that people who are momentarily even headed will have opinions. Talk to many people about this. It is okay to feel like women are more mature, but what you mean to say is possibly (and I am trying to say this with tact):

“The way I perceive I myself and the women in my life hold the things I value grounded in morality and attentiveness. While the men in my life in this temporary time in general relationships (that you mentioned) don’t step up to the plate. I hope I am meeting you half way here.

Now that you know how you feel in relation to your existence and the problems that arise from your observation- there are a few options. Some being, how you can make this equal and fair for other women in your life (like extending comfort and encouragement) which even listening like you’ve done is a great start, or by setting an example like making a stand like you have. Even calling specific people out. When you call a specific person out on how they are fitting into a category they have to face that reality. They will have to come to terms with what you’ve said, whether they accept it as truth is their choice. But at lest you can say you’ve advocated in your belief.

I am not trying to trivialize your situation; Just like I believe you did not mean to generalize harshly to others reading your statements. I have talked to many females and males *which in no way makes me an expert* on the situation but I have found that both men and women say what you’ve just exclaimed out of animosity *for lack of a better word* is that the other gender is overbearing or lacking.

It is sad that there are many many reasons men are pathetic. We have the highest crime rates among the two genders. I wish sometimes I could be a women and not deal with having to admit that I fall into the generalizations or stereotypes. :((

That is my rant, I hope it helps. Productivity is a great stress reliever good luck in your pursuits.

Profile photo of Sasho Stoyanov Anonymous (@) 2 years, 3 months ago ago

@cristinelizabeth, If you’re talking about quitters, I’d understand. But you’re not. Also, be careful what you wish for, rough men like to get drunk and beat their wives. Seriously I have no idea what the fuck do you mean.

“So pussy wins, and can make a guy do anything.” – Poor guys, doing anything for their girls.

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