Call me crazy or weird, but in my life thus far I’ve noticed that I cannot get turned on by a girl (even if I find her very physically attractive) if:
a) I cannot connect with her emotionally and I don’t genuinely appreciate or admire something about her personality, values and traits.
b) There’s not enough sexual tension built up, or
c) I put pressure on myself and get anxious
1. Anyone have similar realizations or comments?
2. If you’ve had memorable sexual experiences, what are your insights on what make it great?
I have some of these same issues so I can identify. I haven’t figured out anything yet but it doesn’t seem to be a biological problem…
I don’t know if I’d recommend DHEA. There are many side effects to consider as well as possible benefits.
Sex with a new partner or someone with whom your sexual rhythm has not been established is likely to have awkward moments and mishaps and giggle inducing events…. that’s why foreplay exists… to learn, explore, teach… and foreplay is like your body’s warm up for the big performance…. you CAN still run the marathon without the warm up, but the ending will most likely not be what you wish, and the run will probably be rather mundane and unsatisfying….