telepathy, coincidence when meeting people

I found that i run into people more than once when i have some sort of connection to them. I don’t know if that is coincidence or some form of group consciousness or telepathy on baby level or something. For example:
-One guy i had feelings for i ran into him so many times i thought he was stalking me but he thought i was stalking him while i was actually trying to avoid him because i didnt want to get involved, yet apparently i already was involved.
-One teacher with some chemical attraction towards me i also ran into him across the whole building, when i turned he turned too, we end up saying hi all the time, i even found his room in the whole building on so called “coincidence”, i was not looking for it. It was really awkward. I only had this in the period that he was my teacher, not before and not after that.
-Two females from my study of around 400 people i became friends with because i ran into them so much without having a clue, so it was not that we became friends because we were in the same class or something.
- One female friend, i thought of her, and she suddenly shows up out of nowhere. Obviously i think of friends, and they also don’t show up suddenly, but when it happens it is weird.
- One far acquaintance guy who had feelings towards me, i once looked at him on facebook, NEXT DAY i run into him in the city.
- One guy i worked with, he lives near my house, but i never ever ran into him before i didn’t knew him and after the time i worked there. When i worked there for only 3 months i ran into him twice. And i never saw him before, while he is really excentric with a big afro head,he would really stand out in the crowd.

and so on..

Am i being paranoid, or is there some hidden link between people we meet, and connect to.. IF so, how does it work really. And why, if you consciously want it to happen it doesnt happen (yet) or maybe that is not the purpose in the first place. Maybe it should not happen because we want it to happen, just because it is suited to happen, but i dont know why and how:S….weird..