The “right thoughts”

3 years ago

Hey everybody! Anyone who’s read pretty much anything about Law of Attraction knows they almost always tell you "You need to be the right person to be a vibrational match to your desires." Meaning: "You need to be the kind of person who deserves this." Do any of you guys have any idea on how to change your mind from being a "bad person" to a "good person"?

March 21, 2012 at 8:27 pm

You must sign in or join to reply!

1
Profile photo of WJ WJ (@chuang11) 3 years ago ago

That’s a hard one, are you talking about “The Secret”?

btw, if you happened to read the conversation with god by Neale, you will see that in the Law of Attraction that described by Neale can be attract only two things: Love or Fear. In the book, there is no GOOD or BAD.
There are just Fear or Love, the thing which God created.

So for you question, I would say just think about love. Anything that love creates should attract another love. So I would say just do the thing you love, it doesn’t matter it’s bad or good in this world. However, it’s for sure will attract another love thing to you. Hence you won’t regret that desire.

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of craig craig (@cgbush) 3 years ago ago

remember, ‘good’ and ‘bad’ are all a matter of opinion. just go with the flow of what feels ‘good’. keep doing good things, and good things will happen. mayb not emediately, but stay with pacience, all things come to he who waits n what not

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of Sasho Stoyanov Anonymous (@) 3 years ago ago

Hahaha, I know this one. From being irritated to stop being irritated and when making a horrible, horrible mistake – just laugh and tell that you were idiot all the goddamn time and you can learn to be a little more careful just because you are still a dumbass and don’t want to feel guilty.

The Law Of Distraction.

Go and tell a starving kid in Somalia that everything is going to be alright and they’ll probably eat you from your belongings.
There are no right or wrong thoughts. You’re just gonna think whatever the fuck you want just because you can. But there are right and wrong actions which may cost you something that you probably hold in the first place just to pay with it.
People can even lie about Karma. I mean… they lie all the time.
This shit about being a good person is getting too much attention. No one can be absolutely good and absolutely bad. People lie to protect their pathetic illusionary reputations. Love thy devil.

Bright Shiny Object Syndrome “You cannot chase more than one rabbit at a time and catch either one of them.” Mary Kay Ash

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of Jason Jason (@thinknowlivenow) 3 years ago ago

Hello Lindsey!

Great thread! The only true way to begin shifting your thoughts to a more positive polarity is to cultivate the self-discipline needed to stay consciously aware of thoughts as they arise. Then, over time, we naturally counteract negative thoughts with positive ones.

Many people misperceive this practice and miss the mark, then conclude that it’s faulty and/or unreliable. Reality caters to lower-entropy consciousness, and those with the positivity and self-discipline to “ride the wave” of synchronicity will be rewarded with highly opportunistic experiences meant to catalyze their conscious/spiritual growth (i.e. decrease entropy).

This is the correct use of habitual action, and one that leads to fantastic results if the person can maintain discipline : )

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of stonedragon stonedragon (@stonedragon21) 3 years ago ago

easier to say than to do at crucial times of high stress and old emotional patterns. but like you say jason it is a question of mind training.
starting just simply by watching the breath, and letting what ever thoughts arise, watching them pass like clouds on a clear sky.
eventually you can train like this, so that when crucial times arise you can also just first watch then react. or even realize that negative thoughts are less frequent. rather than controling yourself. just be kind and patient like with a small child.

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of Jason Jason (@thinknowlivenow) 3 years ago ago

“easier to say than to do at crucial times of high stress and old emotional patterns. but like you say jason it is a question of mind training.”

@Stonedragon; that’s the misperception! Choice is neutral; your current level of emotional investment in these types of thoughts is the real trap. Everything else is just a symptom of these issues. If you can discipline yourself to stay aware, you’re taking care of the root of the problem.

I agree that high-stress situations make it harder to stay centered, but this is the very purpose of personal growth. To build up our immunity to the trivial so the pure and holistic replace them. We can complain all we want (not implying that you or anyone else here is complaining, stonedragon : ) ) about the weights being too heavy, but nobody else can lift them for us. After a while, you’ll find yourself in incredible spiritual shape! : )

[Hidden]
1
Profile photo of Mikey W Mikey W (@mikeyw829) 3 years ago ago

There are no right thoughts in my opinion. How you feel and what you think right now are all that matters, and it is the only thing that is right. It doesn’t matter what the thought itself is, because it is what it is. Denying yourself of how you truly feel will not get you anywhere. The key is to be aware of how you think and feel right now.

[Hidden]
Reply to this topic

More Posts Like This

1

Profile photo of MonkeyZazu Any ideas for the meaning of everything?

Is the meaning of everything just a thing we will find out and accept into society or is it something impossible for our mind to comprehend and understand or is it something else?

1
1

Profile photo of MonkeyZazu Who funds Pirating?

Is it just me or does all those servers and programming skills come at a cost. I can literally find nothing on who pays for this and how lets say the pirate bays founders make money if they do at all. Anybody know any...

2
1

Profile photo of apricelessgoat White Men and America

First off, I’m a white male 24 years old. I’ve never seen anyone as less than me and always judge people based on what’s inside of them. Even then I’m understanding in my judgement because I know...

3
5

Profile photo of WingChunWarrior How to deal with paranoia/anxiety while high

With 4/20 being tomorrow, I want all of my fellow smokers to have a great time. In order to do so, lets try and not have any paranoia/anxiety whilst high. This occasionally occurs for me and the marijuana strain I am...

43
1

Profile photo of paul_g I'm not satisfied with me

I am not so satisfied with me, my parents, Well wishers , friends all are the best one i got but only things here in my life i am not able to digest is its me. i am not getting any idea of what to do next...

7
6

Profile photo of paul_g Where are the discussions?

Three years ago was when I first found HE. The focus in the early days was discussion, ideas and argument. That was HE 2.0, we are 3 version onwards and the majority of the front page of HE is filled with pictures of...

14
1

Profile photo of paul_g Looking for Alexa, HEthen from the old days?

I’m looking for Alexa, from as far back as four years ago – she’ll know when she’s reading this, and if anyone else has a clue with any mode of contact, I’d be veeery thankful for a PM or...

0
3

Profile photo of Campfirecowboy Where do you go?

When you die, where do you go? I mean sure you no longer interact with that which is (depending on your perspective)…but where do “you” go. Is it possible for you to escape the cosmos…and if yes...

18
1

Profile photo of Campfirecowboy The Big Bang Theory Is Wrong

Every single individual atom is alive with a unique consciousness Your mind is the ruler of these atoms, whatever you think attracts certain atoms with a similar vibration and motivates them to carry on life processes...

32
1

Profile photo of apricelessgoat My Husband isn't so loyal to me.

Hi I am 21 years old, I got married to my husband 2 years ago. We’ve been in a relationship for 4 years. We are having a rough patch in our relationship it’s pretty bad. I can’t really trust him like I...

2
1

Profile photo of apricelessgoat Why do I destroy myself?

I’m toxic. I’ve poisoned all my relationships. I lie to my girlfriend by not telling her any of this and so now she wants to leave me. My dad cant talk to me without yelling about something stupid. I’ve...

19
3

Profile photo of Nic The Rational Gaze and DNA

In 1998 Jeremy Narby published The Cosmic Serpent: DNA and the Origins of Knowledge. In it he proposed that shamans may be able to access information at the molecular level through the ingestion of entheogens,...

5
9

Profile photo of Redgynald Share your soundcloud (Or any original music) here

One of my friends just turned me on to soundcloud the other day and I think it is a cool way for musicians to share their music. If anybody has a soundcloud or another type of original music page that they want to share...

165
1

Profile photo of martha98 Happiness?

Is nirvana remotely possible for human beings? I’ve often been thinking about how happiness can become an everyday thing… and most of the time, it seems utterly impossible. How can someone be ultimately...

8
1

Profile photo of Ben Jammin' Lucid Dreaming Masks

I was wondering if anyone has tried any of these products that induce lucid dreaming by flashing small lights into a night masks. These are usually pretty expensive, but I discovered the Remee masks that runs around 90$....

6