Too Coincidental, has it happened to you?
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| Alex Eastman
You know those things that happen that just seem TOO coincidental. Like for instance, you learn the definition to the word "obsequious" then the next day somebody calls you that? Or you have this wonderful idea for a mini-giraffe, then the next week a commercial steals your idea? (that last one happened to me, haha) |
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| Bryan Hellard
I’ve noticed it for words… But that makes sense. Before, when you dont know the word, its just another big word, but as soon as you learn it, you are almost looking out for it… Its something new, and when you see it you notice it because its new to you. |
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| iamjimmy
(@iamjimmy)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
talking about coincidental, look at my post in the “just a question?” discussion… Unless that discussion sparked this one, which it probably did? |
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| Jordan Lejuwaan
Happens pretty often to me. Craziest one happened this week actually. I bought this book through Amazon.com called “Communion with God” (it’s not a religious book actually). Then I stumbled on the Way Back Machine, a website that shows you what websites used to look like wayyyy back when. So I randomly typed in Amazon.com and clicked on a random date in 2001. What do I see on the front page? A description of a new book that has come out form Neale Walsch called “Communion with God”!!! Keep in mind this is an html snapshot of what it looked like back then and has nothing to do with my browsing or purchasing history. Crazy! |
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| Jessica Agee
(@jessica5891)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
I swear, I was the first person to think of a Snuggie… |
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| iamjimmy
(@iamjimmy)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
@jordan thats pretty nuts. I say the more you trace coincidence back into time, the more it begins to look like fate. Maybe thats how it all started? Fate… what a strange thing. |
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| Alex Eastman
iamjimmy, yes that is what it was sparked from, lol. |
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| Alex Eastman
@bryan. I thought that too, but on some things it just doesn’t seem like that. Just like the title says, WAY to coincidental. One just happened to me, i mentioned a giraffe on here then goto facebook and a friend made a joke involving a giraffe. |
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| Nathan
(@weizzguy88)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
I’ve heard this phenomenon referred to as the “Universal Mind.” From what I’ve gathered from the theory it s is based around the idea that all thoughts are original in nature and belong to a sole creator. Once he thought has come to be the creator is limited in time on whether to act on the idea or not. In part if the creator chooses to sit idle the idea still exist and it has to go some where. The ideas are theorized to collect in a collection pool which can be accessed by any human. So Jessica if you would have been walkin around with your bath robe on backwards 3 years ago you would be a millionaire lol… |
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| Martijn Schirp
(@martijn)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Well, there’s a, maybe less exciting explantion for these phenomenon’s. I believe there are two things going on: |
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| Martijn Schirp
(@martijn)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Ofcourse the question, why does this happen is not answered. I wouldn’t be surprised if it was an evolutionary advantage for groups to be more cohesive. And maybe there even isn’t a why or maybe its because we all came from the same source. |
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| Cat
(@catalina)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
I remember something similar being explained in the movie ‘waking life’- must see for lucid dreaming- about how two or three completely innovative ideas could spark on different countries or continents. We have these fixed ideas that X invented the telephone and Y invented penicillin, when actually that’s not the case at all. In some instances (for some reason I’m thinking penicillin) it had already been invented elsewhere but the guy didn’t bother to get a patent for it, and that seems to be the case with a lot of these ‘sparks of genius’. http://blog.ted.com/2009/02/09/elizabeth_gilbe/ I feel almost as if I have to apologise for bringing poor Elizabeth Gilbert into the picture. She’s becoming a Dan Brown type of phenomenon and I hate Dan Brown. Her book was actually well written, funny and dare I say inspirational. |
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| Cat
(@catalina)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
As for my personal experience with these phenomena, it’s become so annoying that I had to start investigating. One rational explanation would be that at some point you just send a signal, a simple thought out into the universe and from then on your unconscious is constantly on the lookout for that piece of information. Consciously, you’ve completely forgotten about it, but your antenna is still out, without you knowing. To illustrate this, here’s something that happened to me a while back: I was desperately trying to remember the name of some guy from college. I was at it for a few hours one day, trying to get there through all sorts of associations, even trying to think if I’d ever seen his name on paper, and how that would be easier to remember with my photographic memory. I wasn’t able to do it for the life of me. Three or four days later, so a considerable amount of time, and by then of course, I’d stopped thinking about it, I was driving into town and a huge lorry passes by, with huge letters on the front of it ‘MIRKO srl’. Also, his name is Serbian and at the time I was in Romania. |
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| Martijn Schirp
(@martijn)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Cool story! i LOVE Jung too, hes amazing. One of the most brilliant onorthodox psychologists that ever lived. Sometimes it seems to me that the wannabe rational linear conscious ego part of the mind causes a very limited world view. |
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| Martijn Schirp
(@martijn)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Ive seen waking life about four times now and it seems that every time I still don’t remember the whole movie. Maybe should watch it sober haha. |
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| Cat
(@catalina)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
@martjin. So the fact that I post E. Gilbert’s video here and then a few hours later decide to check out your TED Discussion group, only to find that this video has already been suggested…what’s this one? selective bias? |
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| Cat
(@catalina)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
I was sober the first and second time I watched it and trust me, I don’t remember it either. There’s just something weird about it, and it’s not just the drawing stuff. :) The information is just so new and so concentrated it makes it hard to wrap your brain around all of it. |
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| Cecilia
(@cecilia)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Yeah it happens to me as well.. Could it just be the law of attraction? |
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| Cameron
(@cman759)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
one of my college roomates (assigned at random) has the same birthday as me. Aug 17. Really strange |
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| Francesco S.
(@francesco)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
It always happens to me , so many times that they can’t be “just” coincidences , my researchs about that and some coincidences ;-) drive me to read The Celestine Prophecy and others sites and books about law of attraction (which is partially true). Thoose readings and meditations on it carried me in two possible conclusions : a god or something like that hears my thoughts or my thoughts influence directly the world around me (like law of attraction and creative thinking) . Now I’m sure that the second was the right (but I’m not saying that something like God does not exist) cause of my hermetics studies(and practices) on Franz Bardon’s books. |
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| Krish Jagirdar
(@koin3190)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Everyone has decent answers. I came up with an explanation that has two prongs. 1. Intuition within with subjective perception of consciousness 2. the very root of “the law of attraction”. I don’t want to bore everyone with a long winded response, so I’ll summarize idea. 1. Now when this is phenomena mixed with intuition or what I like to call the natural law of attraction. See the law of attraction has been taught as if you think of something enough it will create itself right? In reality this isnt the law of attraction but actually a MANIPULATION of the law of attraction because it is consciously guided by the choice maker. When coincidence occurs it is clearly not on the part of the choice maker because then it wouldn’t be coincidence. So this could lead us to the conclusions that we have these thoughts that will lead to us defining an action or event as a ironic coincidence because we connected it as such with the early prophetic premonition, but in reality its just the natural law of attraction working naturally. THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND ALREADY KNOWS WHAT’S GOING TO HAPPEN!!! INCEPTION!!!!! DAHM DAHM! |
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| Sofia
(@leivailya)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
I agree with Martijn. Your brain might just create the coincidence because you want it to happen, because it truly is a nice feeling, whatever the coincidence is. Here is my latest little coincidence. Now to the other part…. Yesterday morning when I’m about to get off at a bus stop a mother stands in front of me with her child in a buggy. She gets off before me and during these few seconds she decides in the last one to turn a quick left, the same second that I’m entering the space that she decides to move into. So I do an emergency turn, I jump to the left towards the bus to avoid a crash with the buggy. By doing that I bump into the bus and my jacket gets dirty. When I lift up my arm to brush it off I realize what I dreamt about a few hours earlier. I’m not sure what it is …or if it is ..or if it isn’t. What do you think? |
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| Jordan Lejuwaan
I think it’s a mix between the answers of Martijn and Krish. Yes, selective-bias and the mass priming effect can definitely account for a lot of these occurrences. However for happenings like mine, Alex’s and Sofia’s, those rationalizations can possibly be held responsible. There is definitely some element of law of attraction-like stuff going on that cannot (yet) be explained by modern science. I fully believe in concept of a collective-consciousness and in the idea that we can somehow be guided towards certain events based upon our thoughts and desires. Serendipity runs RAMPANT when you have your mind set on achieving a goal. Anyone that has experience with intention-based meditation can attest to this. I love logical and rational as much as the next guy, but I accept that there are some things we cannot explain. And I love that :) |
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| casey ames
I feel that the things that we cannot explain, are theories that yet to be discovered. For all of history people have looked at things that cannot be explained and have used religion to fill in those gaps. Anything scientific once has a religious explanation, rain, snow, the sun, etc. I agree with Jordan in that I love having things that we have no clue about how they happen, and that needs to make us strive for the answers, similar to how once religiously explained phenomena now have scientific answers. With this I feel like its not enough for us to say that there is some higher being causing these coincidences, there are probably psychological aspects including and beyond selective-bias to explain these coincidences. |
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| Krish Jagirdar
(@koin3190)
2 years, 3 months ago ago
Exactly Jordan. A very interesting idea that runs parallel with all of this, including collective consciousness, happened to me today. My college roommate and his girlfriend were meeting today for the first time in a while. As soon as she got here. Plans randomly fell in place for me to hang out with a friend I hadn’t seen in sometime. It is uncommon for me and my friend to hang out, but it just happened. On top of that it left my roommate to “be” with his girlfriend for quite a bit of time, “uninterrupted”, due to my elongated absence. It makes me think that the fabric our interdependent realities is ultimately caused by collective consciousness of us and those around us and lastly our enviroment. Stay with me here… could it possible that my rare occurrence-hang out with my friend was ultimately caused by my roommates own personal intention? Could I go as far to say that this thought that I had and therefor this post that I am writing was ultimately caused by me taking part in this discussion before all of this occured? Coincidence? I think not! :o |
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