When you love someone…

2 years, 9 months ago

What do you do, when you love someone, who doesn’t love you back?

April 13, 2012 at 6:15 pm

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Profile photo of ButternutSquash ButternutSquash (@equanimity) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

I’m going to link you to a site that I have found has amazing insight:

http://www.urbanmonk.net/976/mourn-each-relationship/

What do you feel is lost between you? And how are you defining this “love”?

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Profile photo of Sasho Stoyanov Anonymous (@) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

You cannot love someone if you cannot give them what you don’t have.

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Profile photo of Mystique Mystique (@kayjay85) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

Wow, that’s an amazing technique…I’ve learned how to accept things for what they are, but heartbreak pain can be a challenge to deal with.

Thank you @Equanimity.

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Profile photo of Lori Lori (@loriloulou) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

“Love is not what you want, it is what you are. It is very important to not get these two confused. If you think that love is what you want, you will go searching for it all over the place. If you think love is what you are, you will go sharing it all over the place. The second approach will cause you to find what the searching will never reveal.” –Neale Donald Walsch….this helped me put things in perspective. @karolina maybe it will help you too.

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Profile photo of ButternutSquash ButternutSquash (@equanimity) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

Very welcome. Great quote, Lori!

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Profile photo of Mystique Mystique (@kayjay85) 2 years, 9 months ago ago

@Lori,

I cannot express how grateful I am to you for sharing that. It surely did help.

And it makes perfect sense.

Thank you.

<3

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