Why do we love the wrong people?

2 years, 4 months ago

It confuses me how we never love the people who would never break our hearts, who would treat us like prince and princesses. We always go for the jerks who make us feel bad and do us wrong so many times. Why?

December 17, 2012 at 7:44 pm

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Profile photo of Eq Eq (@truthseeker) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@peacefulmotivators, Ok, so occasionally you feel like a bad person. Perhaps realize you’ve done or said something wrong. Happens to everybody. The key is to work towards becoming a better person and wanting to do better next time :-) Cheers!

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Profile photo of Michael Michael (@peacefulmotivators) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@truthseeker, Thanks, I agree!

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Profile photo of Waddupdawg Waddupdawg (@hellomary513) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@equanimity, I love myself though and I am confident but this guy makes sense!!! I love the video and that guy is awesome! Thanks!

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Profile photo of Waddupdawg Waddupdawg (@hellomary513) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@equanimity, I appreciate life and everyone. Legit! Everything this guy says is not me!

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Profile photo of Waddupdawg Waddupdawg (@hellomary513) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@baker, I love your answer! Thank you!

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Profile photo of Ellie Ellie (@theeblackhole) 2 years, 4 months ago ago

@hellomary513,

Sometimes the people who we think are the loving people we’ve always wanted are actually not who we thought they were. I believe this is from the fact that we all act differently when we thoroughly get to know someone then when we first meet them. Take one of your friends for example, at first you try and act all nice to see if the two of you have common ground. This is like looking for a good pair of shoes, roughly. When you first try them on in the store you are careful with them but when you buy them you wear them till they fall apart. Or if they are really good shoes, you have them till you die. In the real world your different with the shoes then you were in the store, same thing with romantic relationships or just relationships in general. Except shoes are the same throughout a relationship. People have the capability of changing or being versatile based on the person and instead of just one of you acting different “in the store,” both of you are acting different in the store. Truly relationships are complicated and a bitch at times but you can’t blame yourself if things didn’t work out, or the other person for that matter. It just mean the two of you weren’t meant for each other and that you should get back up and find that person you are meant for. There are lots of people in the world and no doubt there is some one out there who would fit your criteria perfectly. Best of luck and fortune.

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