I’m a sales consultant for a finance company. I used to love my job but now i hate it. i like working with the customers and have built excellent relationships with a lot of them, however, i can’t stand my collegues!! they put more time and effort into making my life difficult than actually doing any work!! My manager cudnt care less and taking things further would only make things more unbearable!! What do i do? Give up and get another job? (I hate to quit!!) .. I’ve never been in this situation before as i pride myself in being easy to ‘get along with’.. if anybody has been in a similar situation, please advise me!!
The fact of the matter is, you cant change them, but that doesnt mean you have toleave. If the job is really worth it to you, the best thing you really could do is be honest with yourself, and then be honest with them. Address the issue, after much reflection, peacefully and with a calm head and heart. Stay confident in your ability to not “lose it” (if thats even a tendency at all). think about what you are going to say,, and when youre saying it, form your words carefully. Make sure that they accurately describe how you feel in the most professional way possible. Ye youre gonna have to come right out and say it at some point, just have a peaceful delivery., honesty may be inconvienent but its well worth it. You respect yourself by doing it that way.